Posts by Corvin

  • Corvin
    45

    IF YOU CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE . . .

    by Corvin in
    1. jw
    2. friends

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    say something kind about someone else on this board.

    try to pick someone you don?t know as well as the others and focus on what it is about them that appeals to you.

    1. Corvin
    2. seeitallclearlynow
    3. kls
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    fires me up. I heard an audio of Danny's voice once, and then suddenly I got him. He is my alter-ego.

    Elsewhere makes me laugh out loud when he posts a witty response and I look over at the expression on Alfalfa's face.

    inspires me. I feel a kindred spirit with him for some reason . . . I sometimes have visions of us brandishing longswords and smiting the enemy.

    Xandria really turns me on with her brains, experience(s) and common sense . . . and no-nonsense.

    Valis helped me to overcome my fear of dreadlocks.

    Corvin

  • Corvin
    22

    NEW SAN DIEGO X-JW SUPPORT GROUP FORMING

    by Corvin in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    to bring you up to speed: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/79728/1.ashxeverybody, meet larry.

    while the above skepticism and sarcasm might be a normal response and even warranted in the beginning, i will state that larry is a good guy, big heart, lot's of knowledge and understanding, articulate and disarming.

    can't dance worth shit tho, jk.

    1. Corvin
    2. BrendaCloutier
    3. bebu
  • Corvin
    Corvin
    Who is he on this board?

    unclepenn1

  • Corvin
    22

    NEW SAN DIEGO X-JW SUPPORT GROUP FORMING

    by Corvin in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    to bring you up to speed: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/79728/1.ashxeverybody, meet larry.

    while the above skepticism and sarcasm might be a normal response and even warranted in the beginning, i will state that larry is a good guy, big heart, lot's of knowledge and understanding, articulate and disarming.

    can't dance worth shit tho, jk.

    1. Corvin
    2. BrendaCloutier
    3. bebu
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    Awesome post Xandria! Thank you for your support.

    What about individually? If a person still recognizes that there is a God and has a need for spiritual guidance, where do they go?

    Individually, each group member's personal beliefs about God and the Bible will be respected and protected. If one has a need for spiritual guidance, there are more religious/spiritual resources than you can shake a NWT at. Each individual is responsible for his own spiritual nurturing, and the same hand, we all must support and validate whatever empowers that individual, whether we agree with it or not.

    The group meetings, however, should deal with issues pertaining to the exit itself, hardships, challenges, loss, grief, depression, anger, shunning, spiritual identity (but not a forum for anyone's personal ministry or evangelizing work and not a place for religious instruction). There are an incredible amount of issues to discuss.

    Corvin

  • Corvin
    22

    NEW SAN DIEGO X-JW SUPPORT GROUP FORMING

    by Corvin in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    to bring you up to speed: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/79728/1.ashxeverybody, meet larry.

    while the above skepticism and sarcasm might be a normal response and even warranted in the beginning, i will state that larry is a good guy, big heart, lot's of knowledge and understanding, articulate and disarming.

    can't dance worth shit tho, jk.

    1. Corvin
    2. BrendaCloutier
    3. bebu
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    really . . . ? nobody wants to touch this one?

  • Corvin
    22

    NEW SAN DIEGO X-JW SUPPORT GROUP FORMING

    by Corvin in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    to bring you up to speed: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/79728/1.ashxeverybody, meet larry.

    while the above skepticism and sarcasm might be a normal response and even warranted in the beginning, i will state that larry is a good guy, big heart, lot's of knowledge and understanding, articulate and disarming.

    can't dance worth shit tho, jk.

    1. Corvin
    2. BrendaCloutier
    3. bebu
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    To bring you up to speed: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/79728/1.ashx

    Everybody, meet Larry.

    While the above skepticism and sarcasm might be a normal response and even warranted in the beginning, I will state that Larry is a good guy, big heart, lot's of knowledge and understanding, articulate and disarming. Can't dance worth shit tho, JK.

    While Larry has never been a JW, he has studied with them and has his own story to tell, and I will let him tell it.

    We have met twice, once in his home, and it seems as though after everything has been said and done, a very positive aliance has been formed. Larry's knowledge of cults and thought reform is pretty deep and he has formed relationships with others on this board we all know and respect. Therefore, it is my opinion that Larry is a valuable asset to those seeking help and recovery.

    At length, with details to follow, we have put together a very real support group for the San Diego area. What is different about this group is that it is geared toward getting help and counseling to recovering JW's with bonafied therapists and counselors who have a keen desire to understand and help. Such counseling will not be a mandatory part of the group setting, but it will be offered. It is our ultimate aim to fill the gap between traditional counselors and therapists and the unique situation a df'd, apostate or da'd JW finds themselves in. The possibilities for expansion and duplication of a successful group model for other areas is being explored.

    While members of the support group can discuss doctrine and other issues related to their former faith, there will be absolutely no "evangelizing" or "spiritual guidance" offered to the group. No substituting one religion or set of beliefs for another. It is agreed that spirituality is a very personal matter, between the individual and their god, and such assistance should be sought outside the group, not within.

    So, please welcome Larry and feel free to ask him the hard questions (and I know you will). He is truly a man that puts himself on the line, so I don't think he will mind.

    A big question for those reading this post is: if you were to participate in a X-JW support group what should it include that would enable you personally to get your needs met?

    Your honest replies and ideas will go along way to help others.

    Corvin

  • Corvin
    31

    THIS IS ALL COMPLETELY NORMAL???

    by Corvin in
    1. watchtower
    2. child-abuse

    remember the kingdom hall bathroom spankings for us kids that did not sit quietly for the meeting?

    the threats, the manipulation, the head games, the forced meeting attendance, forced field service activity, forced family wt publication study, the forbidden association with non-jw?s, the berating and chastising for having a thought or idea of your own, the dresser drawer searches looking for music or magazines you were not suppose to have .

    you know, the typical jw upbringing .

    1. Nosferatu
    2. Fe2O3Girl
    3. Corvin
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    Hey guys, your posts have actually opened my eyes as to the real reason why I like S & M so much. Who would of though the big "J" was such a masochist....

    lol, preston. This is sort of an important topic.

    Best Regards,

    Corvin

  • Corvin
    31

    THIS IS ALL COMPLETELY NORMAL???

    by Corvin in
    1. watchtower
    2. child-abuse

    remember the kingdom hall bathroom spankings for us kids that did not sit quietly for the meeting?

    the threats, the manipulation, the head games, the forced meeting attendance, forced field service activity, forced family wt publication study, the forbidden association with non-jw?s, the berating and chastising for having a thought or idea of your own, the dresser drawer searches looking for music or magazines you were not suppose to have .

    you know, the typical jw upbringing .

    1. Nosferatu
    2. Fe2O3Girl
    3. Corvin
  • Corvin
    Corvin
    None of that "Jehovah help me" crap, though.

    That is morosely funny, avishai. I remember watching my older brother getting beat, he broke free running crying out, "save me, Jehovah!" What a effing head-job they do on kids.

    Corvin

  • Corvin
    45

    IF YOU CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE . . .

    by Corvin in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    .

    say something kind about someone else on this board.

    try to pick someone you don?t know as well as the others and focus on what it is about them that appeals to you.

    1. Corvin
    2. seeitallclearlynow
    3. kls
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    Say something kind about someone else on this board.

    Try to pick someone you don?t know as well as the others and focus on what it is about them that appeals to you.

  • Corvin
    31

    THIS IS ALL COMPLETELY NORMAL???

    by Corvin in
    1. watchtower
    2. child-abuse

    remember the kingdom hall bathroom spankings for us kids that did not sit quietly for the meeting?

    the threats, the manipulation, the head games, the forced meeting attendance, forced field service activity, forced family wt publication study, the forbidden association with non-jw?s, the berating and chastising for having a thought or idea of your own, the dresser drawer searches looking for music or magazines you were not suppose to have .

    you know, the typical jw upbringing .

    1. Nosferatu
    2. Fe2O3Girl
    3. Corvin
  • Corvin
    Corvin

    Remember the Kingdom Hall bathroom spankings for us kids that did not sit quietly for the meeting? The threats, the manipulation, the head games, the forced meeting attendance, forced field service activity, forced family WT publication study, the forbidden association with non-JW?s, the berating and chastising for having a thought or idea of your own, the dresser drawer searches looking for music or magazines you were not suppose to have . . . you know, the typical JW upbringing . . . abuse and all?

    Especially for those born and raised in the organization of Jehovah?s Witnesses, at what point did you begin to realize the way you were being treated was not normal?