Very interesting comments and experiences. It made me think. A friend of mine had breast cancer. The operation went well and the new boobs look somehow good. But a garanty for the future has nobody. An unhealthy fear is unconstructive. Of course we want to make the right decision. But what is the best decision in our case. Common sense is really a help even it doesnt rescue us in all cases. Getting very good informations about the special kind of cancer helps a lot. Spending time with positive things. Eating healthy. Being active in sport activities. Having a good sleep. Dont allowing the cancer to take away the joy of life and the love that you have to give. Not easy if the death is knocking at your door. I would like to know as much as possible about the kind of enemy in me. How he functions. What makes him stronger or weaker. What does he needs to stay alive. And I know I wouldnt want to give him time to became stronger. Every hours counts. If you cant kill that cancer then keep him in place. Even a cancer has a weak point. I know easy to speak like that. Of course we want to live and dont want to leave the people we love behind us (young and old) To feel the powerful Peace of God (Phillipiens 4:6,7) shows you which is the best door to choose. In know what I am saying. It makes you so calm, the times goes by so slow and you can see suddenly clearly the way to go. And you know there is no better. Whereever it leads you its all you can do. I wish you all the best :)
fedolox
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Breast Cancer
by simplesally inlumpectomy or mastectomy???.
outnfree and i chose differently.
i know the doctors gave me the survival rates................the same.
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Price of gas....
by Atilla inthe price of gasoline sure is getting high, in my area it is about $1.65, i guess not too bad compared to other areas.
i'm not too worried because my camry gets pretty good gas mileage and i don't usually have to commute too far.. however, i think this summer it may reach over $2 in many areas.
i just wonder how this will affect summer aux.
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fedolox
I guess $4,50/Gallon here is not really cheap ... right?! :)
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Relationship: Do you hold back from saying all you are thinking?
by Sassy ini have become so much more independent and in some ways demanding as i have stopped being a jw.
there was a time when i was literally a doormat for my first husband.
but i have found from being single and then add to that losing the grip from the jw rules, i have become more independence and in many ways more of an opinion.
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fedolox
I guess it depends on how important the information is, for you or the other person.
What will be the consequences to live with for you or the other person if you dont say it?
The reality shows. Most of the time we have to risc something to find what we are looking for.
Its easier to win then to loose. And sometimes we can only really win if we are not afraid to loose.
But I am sure if there is love ... then there is a way ... how crazy and difficult the way will be :)
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Plastic Surgery
by simplesally in.
i think that is such a hot topic i had to post about it.
my boobs are absolutely perfect but hanging a little low due to nursing and being 40 and i think that around the eyes, i could go with a little lift............ so what's ok with you?
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fedolox
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maybe Sally, you should go out shopping with your husband ("Harry") ...
and believe after you showed him your first one ... he will have immediately a facelift :)
LONG LIVE THE LADIES :)))
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Plastic Surgery
by simplesally in.
i think that is such a hot topic i had to post about it.
my boobs are absolutely perfect but hanging a little low due to nursing and being 40 and i think that around the eyes, i could go with a little lift............ so what's ok with you?
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fedolox
I saw women with great results after an operation, but I guess its always a question of money and the right doctor.
In your case Sally ... keep the money for the enjoying and amusing things in life ... like a good stripbar for women ;-) ...
The best facelift has someone who is happy with himself, ...
and to be a good looking person is most of the time only a question ... courage ... what a person makes of him/herselfSally, what about a good corset?