Lol Deb anybody told you talkin to yourself is the first sign that your goin mad
Wish i felt like you! Coffee might make me feel better, spent the night lookin after 3 drunken 12 year olds! God help me...
xLaurax
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it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.
deb
Lol Deb anybody told you talkin to yourself is the first sign that your goin mad
Wish i felt like you! Coffee might make me feel better, spent the night lookin after 3 drunken 12 year olds! God help me...
xLaurax
Well.... unlike Xena im underqualified as opposed to overqualified..
Lol, shame! xLaurax
hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.
i'm an athiest.
i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation.
To be honest the girl sounds as though she is not strongly in the Jw faith seen as though she has already dated others outside the faith and you have obviously been made welcone in her home. I think that these are good signs and that you should go for it.
It depends where you are as to how strict the Jw's really are. I come on here and read some absolutely awful stories that i have never seen happen over here. In England the Jw's seem to be so much more leniant. she's shown that she's interested in you and there has been no protest so far either from her or her parents so why not give it a go!!
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i am very curious to your respones.
Ok then... my reasons are gonna sound very trivial but who cares
Positive: Like people have previously menioned - the fact that it develops your reading skills and you get to learn about a whole other religion and become very well acquainted with the bible.
Negative: The fact that most of the people in the KH are so wrapped up in religion that they simply have no personalities and social lives. Also the fact that you can't celebrate things sucha s birthdays and christmas! (Even though i always did anyway )
xLaurax
i always get different answers when i ask this question, or i get answers that contradict with the people givin the answer.
i ask this to various forums online and they all end up saying, when your ready and you know the conciquences.
however, that obviously doesn't work much or isn't the truth when so many little kids are getting pregnant and aids are everywhere and everything else.. so seriously.
Just reading through some of the posts there and alot of you are saying not before your 18 etc. but in this day and age that really is easier said than done when sex is in your life everyday from tv to radio and even in school now.
I agree with you OS when you say the 'ideal' time to have sex is when you are married but it takes a hell of alot of restraint for you to wait that long. Personally i don't believe that i would be able to do it.
I'm only 16 and not a virgin.. my first time was with my bestest friend in the world and i do not regret anything about that cos i believed that at that time i was ready. It did kinda screw with our friendship because there were complications but at the end of the day i would not turn the clock back. But sex when you love somebody e.g. sex with my boyfriend is so much more loving and feels alot more natural. But realisitically not many teenagers now will be able to wait until marriage because sex is so publicised so the main aim now should be to keep sex safe.
So long as you are protecting yourself and not sleeping with different people every week - like my mum always told me 'put a price on yourself' - don't just sleep around and don't let anyone take advantage of you
But hell OS we've gotta cure you of your shyness before you can even start thinking of sex! Lol!
xLaurax
okay as my jwd friends and acquaintances know i'm trying for "the perfect fade", because family is in etc etc .
but i've just taken some "bigish" steps for me.
(babysteps in reality i suppose.
Well done mother i'm proud of ya! You keep takin them little baby steps and ul make it!!
Btw does that mean that now i get presents from ya when it's my birthday seen as though i'm like your chid? lol.
xLaurax
we're a bit later in 'publishing' this weekend - sorry about that.
my excuse is we were stuck up a mountain on the southern ranges.
a glorious view though, so that was some compensation.
So what did you really think of "worldly people"?
Well it isnt part of the options... but practically all bar one of my friends are wordly and that's how it has always been and how i intend to keep it. Worldly people definitely have ALL the fun,lol
xLaurax
next week-end, there are elections in europe.
countries are starting on thursday and ending on sunday.
since i am not at home on the german election day i have already voted by letter.
Well... obviously you can tell that i am too young to vote but this is an issue that's always struck me as being stupid. My mum has always been against voting because it goes against her religion .. and this really does annoy me. Especially the fact that she is a woman and lots of people have fought hard to give her the right to vote. Seems to me that she's just being ignorant. Lots of people don't vote and then complain about who is elected. It doesn't make sense - if they don't vote then what do they expect.
God... adults
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Haha that was a good one! Sometimes i worry about the amount of time that i spend on the internet... i think i'm gonna have to start getting out more
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the other night sandy and i were having an argument with badger about what women want.. he says money.. .
so what is it ladies?
Well... i have to say that love has obviously gotta be number 1. As the old saying goes...love can't buy you happiness but i believe that love can! Of course the first thing that you notice when u see some1 for the first time is attractiveness and then that builds up to be personality, lifestyle etc. Many people will say that money does not count but u can't deny that it is a bonus... an attractive bonus at that
xLaurax