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  Life is good!

  by RubyTuesday in

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  i just snapped this picture from my deck...wanted to share it with you.. http://groups.msn.com/survivorsofjw/memberphotos.msnw?action=showphoto&photoid=38.

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  RubyTuesday

  Thanks Lilacs.

  Yes Six....don't tell anyone or I will have to kill you. I followed your advice and divided up the house with tape and he stepped on my side and welllll.... you don't want to hear the details!!!
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  Life is good!

  by RubyTuesday in

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  i just snapped this picture from my deck...wanted to share it with you.. http://groups.msn.com/survivorsofjw/memberphotos.msnw?action=showphoto&photoid=38.

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  RubyTuesday

  I just snapped this picture from my deck...wanted to share it with you.

  http://groups.msn.com/SurvivorsofJW/memberphotos.msnw?action=ShowPhoto&PhotoID=38
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  Breaking up is hard to do

  by RubyTuesday in

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  well...my boyfriend of three years and i have broken up.the really difficult part is we have to live together for another 6 months (we signed a lease).this should be interesting.any suggestions on how to get through this?

  anyone else have a strange breakup where you had to see the person day after day?

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  Dakota...Thanks for the good advice. I do need to look long and hard at the situation.I have to stop acting on my emotions.
  As for Mr.Right...there is no such person.
  As for the bus thing...I think I've been on too many bumpy bus rides in my life.It's time I do my own driving.
  Thanks for caring...I just might need to e-mail you..starting to think this is going to be a tough one.
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  Breaking up is hard to do

  by RubyTuesday in

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  well...my boyfriend of three years and i have broken up.the really difficult part is we have to live together for another 6 months (we signed a lease).this should be interesting.any suggestions on how to get through this?

  anyone else have a strange breakup where you had to see the person day after day?

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  RubyTuesday

  Six..good one ...line throughout the house.
  It would be easy to get the landlord on my side (he has a pet ..she doesn't know about)but I don't want to play dirty pool.I will always care about him..he has been such a good friend.

  Dakato..I guess you could say there is a little bitterness between us ( we are not speaking to eachother) I know it would be better to live apart...but financialy it is better this way.On the other hand it might be worth it to spend a little extra money so we can get on with our lives.I'm not looking forward to being alone.I wish you the best on your divorce.
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  Breaking up is hard to do

  by RubyTuesday in

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  well...my boyfriend of three years and i have broken up.the really difficult part is we have to live together for another 6 months (we signed a lease).this should be interesting.any suggestions on how to get through this?

  anyone else have a strange breakup where you had to see the person day after day?

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  LB
  Only problem was I didn't know we had broken up. LOL!!

  Now you got me wondering if he really understands it is over.(We are not on speaking terms and maybe he thinks this will blow over)

  I don't worry about him bringing home a boink buddy...He is more worried that I will bring home a boink buddy.

  JanH
  I hope this will go as smoothly as your break up.
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  Breaking up is hard to do

  by RubyTuesday in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  well...my boyfriend of three years and i have broken up.the really difficult part is we have to live together for another 6 months (we signed a lease).this should be interesting.any suggestions on how to get through this?

  anyone else have a strange breakup where you had to see the person day after day?

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  Well...My boyfriend of three years and I have broken up.The really difficult part is we have to live together for another 6 months (we signed a lease).This should be interesting.Any suggestions on how to get through this? Anyone else have a strange breakup where you had to see the person day after day?
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  Active...ummm....Witnesses

  by Crystal in

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  i have noticed that when jw's come to my house, they refer to themselves as "bible students".now i know they have been calling themselves that for years, but now it's like you have to pry it out of them to tell you they are "jehovah's witnesses.".

  i also noticed that the article about the tragic car wreck asked you to send your donations to "the kingdom hall of witnesses.

  "to help pay for burials of the five children, call kingdom hall of witnesses minister larry mcquater at (601) 366-1076 or send donations to kingdom hall of witnesses, box 9744, jackson ms 39209.. .

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  When they say they are bible students I want to say "then should'nt you be in bible school?Come back when you have degree as a Bible Teacher"!!
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  Anderson's Go to Canada to Testify

  by silentlambs in

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  joe and barbara anderson will be representing silentlambs.org at the victoria boer sexual child abuse trial in toronto, canada that will begin on sept. 9th.

  the andersons need a place to stay for approximately one night in toronto during the trial where barbara will be called to testify against the watchtower.

  in addition, if they could find a place to stay somewhere near northern indiana or michigan, on the way from tennessee to the trial, and a place to stay when they return, it would save silentlambs motel costs.

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  RubyTuesday

  Sorry , I live in Central California.If anyone ever needs a place to stay here ,they are more than welcomed in my home.
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  First Post from me

  by ScoobySnax in

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  hello..........oh dear.. into the lair of the apostates i tread!.........

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  RubyTuesday

  Welcome!! Love your nick.

  Warning!!This site is very addicting!! You will learn to get around it in no time at all.
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  A Time to Weep. A Time to Mourn

  by Swan in

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  last week my niece died in a car crash.

  she was only 18 years old.

  i haven't seen her since she was 10. i missed her all that time.

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  RubyTuesday

  ((((((uglyduckling))))))My deepest sympathies.

  Im just curious why you where not allowed to see your neice?
  The same thing happend to me when she(my niece) was 12 years old.
  I havent seen here for over 10 years and often wonder where she is or how her life turned out.

  I believe that everyone grieves in their own way.My father died when i was 12 years old and I reacted the opposite of you.I did'nt cry..in fact i was very angry he died...My whole world went up in flames!! My dad was suppose to be strong. My grandmother kept trying to get me to cry and she kept handing me kleenex..It just made me more angry...(maybe one of the reasons why i did'nt cry was because my dad did'nt like it when we cried)everyone thought i was a freak. I later cried in private ..usually late at night or when i woke up from a dream where my dad came home..it seemed so real.

  My point is everyone grieves differently and everyone should be allowed to grieve their own way!! I feel so strongly about this.Don't ever let anyone tell you how to react to anything.Just let it out the way you want.

  So so sorry for your loss..life is precious.