myelaine:
In Disney World there is a great ride called Indy Speedway, I loved it as a kid. You get to drive these little cars, you can even steer and control the speed. The catch is that your car is on a track and you can only go forward. But that did'nt matter, I had a great time.
In essense you would call this free-will:
If you enjoyed your purpose, saw that it was most excellent regardless of adversity, why would you want to turn.
And let's be intellectually honest here, this is not a choice:
You have free will to choose a different purpose, you also know the consequences of that choice, death.
Now that I'm all growed up (just a nod to the grammer police), I get into a car I choose, and choose which direction to drive in. I choose what speed to drive. I choose the route to get there. I choose whether or not I will obey the posted speed limits. I also accept the consequences of my choices.
But here is the crux, and I hope you understand this: If God knows the future, then all my "choices" are not choices at all, but merely successive events leading to a end point. From my human viewpoint, it may seem like I'm in control - but I'm not. You say:
God has a perfect place for fellowship with His children in paradise. Will you chose to be with Him.
This sounds like the end point, "a perfect place...in paradise". But how is God's tactics any different than a mugging? If a someone held a gun to your head and demanded your money, would you have a choice but to give over the money? At that point the mugger, not you, effectively controls your destiny.
But if someone, like a beggar, asks for money (no gun of course) you can choose to give the money or not. The only difference between the mugger and the beggar is threat.
The fact is that, according to your belief, billions of people, the majority of mankind are choosing not to be with God. This is also the pattern of Bible history: Flood survivors=8, Sodom survivors=3.
God knew/knows in advance that the great majority of the human population will have to die for God's will to happen. If you want to rejoice that God won't kill you if you do what God says, be my guest ... and study up on Stockholm syndrome.