Thanks for the responses, I hope the post exposed the frustrated emotions that people suffer in an emotional vacuum such as JWs.
But Always look on the bright side of life! : IMO the recent articles on depression and the reader response have paved the way for the "fading" JWs who can now "happily" claim to be "depressed."
I say lay it on thick, and keep a copy of the Awake! handy (clutch it to your chest and make sure it has tear stains) when the elders come by for an "encouraging" visit. Tell them:
"I finally feel understood"
"I am doing everything I can right now"
"After reading this article I'm sure you understand"
"I tried to go to counseling, but the doctors tell me I'm in a mind control cult"
After the "new light" on depression, elders can no longer guilt you into bible study, meetings, service, etc. It's the ultimate "twinkie defence".