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  Which of you readers are being shunned by their relatives / friends ?

  by stan livedeath in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  a simple " me" if you dont want to say more--or a short explanation about who is shunning you and how long has this been going on.. i'll set the ball rolling: my daughter--her husband and children; my younger son --no contact from them for 40 years...because i left their religion.. (edit--i just noticed the typo in the header--if should be of ).

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  Me and my daughter are shunned by my late wife's brothers and their families. It's been going on about 10 years or so even though my daughter and I left over 20 years ago. It seems that the 'family' got pangs of conscience for associating with us. Everything was well and good when the males of the family were working for the company that I and my daughter's ex started. They loved the money and association when their wallets were full. As a family, we all were very close for almost 50 years. Once the business went under and the money stopped coming in, they associated for a few years but then went bye-bye.

  My daughter and I aren't even notified about deaths in the family. We hear from other sources.

  Oh....the loving organization that destroys families.
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  C of E Abuse Report. Contrast with JW org !

  by Phizzy in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  note this report covers cases going back to 1949, they uncovered 400. if j.w's in the u.k did a similar, thorough trawl of all congregation records going back that far, let's pretend they haven't destroyed most of them, we know they have, but just pretend they are all available, how many cases of abuse would they uncover ?

  in a much smaller org ?.

  maybe the file destruction that has gone on was to protect the org.

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  Why should any of us have to do a web search to find out just what the hell C of E means? Don't you know how to spell whole words? I don't think I'm the only one who gets pissed off at letter abbreviations. If you are going to make a post, then be concise about what the gist is.

  Rant over.
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  Stupid WT Q's : Is It Wise or Safe to Keep a Dog?  Demons—How Can We Resist Them?

  by Sea Breeze in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  yes, that is an actual question in the awake magazine.

  jw kids lives are already miserable enough trying to obey all the ignorant rules of the wt.. no sports, no school dance, no holidays.... just field service.

  as if that isn't enough.... let's take away their puppy dogs too!.

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  In the KH I attended, there was a whacko "brother" who said that all dogs are demonized.
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  Did becoming a JW influence you to give up something you enjoyed ?

  by smiddy3 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  when i was a teenager a younger fellow workmate was involved in the sport of judo.i got interested and went along to a number of sessions and took to it like a sponge to water ,and as a sport i was happy participating in.. not that much longer another workmate was getting re-activated in the religion of jw`s.

  which i had never heard o before and then got interested in that .. conflict : was judo a sport that was compatible with j.w beliefs?

  sadly i decided it was not and stopped any further involvement.. to this day i resent that decision i made back then .and i`m 82 years old now.. it was a sport i was comfortable doing and i enjoyed it.and i gave it up because of the religion .who knows what i may have achieved had i continued with it.

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  I was an avid hunter and fisherman and loved the outdoors. Then I was brainwashed that hunting was bad and gave it up. Fishing was ok as long as you didn't waste the fish you caught.

  I also limited my relationship with my own father who I hunted with because he was opposed to da truf. At least I rekindled that when he got older no matter what the JW idiots said.
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  10 years on and I’m still indoctrinated

  by joe134cd in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  this experience highlights the level of my indoctrination, after 10 years of been a pomo.

  a few months back my gf was hinting to me about what we could do for my birthday.

  to be honest i just had no idea, that i even had a birthday.

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  Same here Joe134cd,

  Birthdays and other Holidays can come and go. They still don't mean much to me, but I abide by my daughter's wishes and buy presents and decorate with her.

  I've been out 20 years and still find myself with some deep rooted, JW thinking that determines how I view situations or people. Will it ever be gone? Who knows? At least now, I'm able to recognize when this is happening, and I have to think hard before I open my mouth.
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  New Video from Pursue Peace Assembly talks down to jws on medical choice

  by raymond frantz in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  https://youtu.be/bbgovnly3vy.

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  enoughisenough,

  It's so wonderful that you, the world's foremost expert on vaccines has come to this forum to enlighten us.

  "aiding and abetting the mass killings, and injuries from the shots"
  
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  Vaccines - "Jehovah's" chariot does it again....

  by neat blue dog in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  jehovah's chariot, famous for being late to the game, copying other religion's chariots, or outright turning in the wrong direction does it again with vaccines.

  immediately after the gb announced that masks are still required and that all hlc elders are required to be fully vaccinated, the cdc comes out with new covid guidelines:.

  which "focuses on individual decisions" and "brings the recommendations for unvaccinated people in line with people who are fully vaccinated – an acknowledgment of the high levels of population immunity in the u.s., due to vaccination, past covid-19 infections or both.

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  Mikejw,

  You've been here only 10 days and all you have done is promote your conspiracy agenda. You must have been a follower of Alex Jones and all the other conspiracy "nuts".

  I agree with stan livedeath. Knock it off. You are getting very boring.

  Just keep going to your Kingdom Hall, because you don't belong here. You are only playing games.
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  3 years in the making

  by Judgerussellford in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  thursday while i was at work, a new elder stopped by the house (almost 3 years after fading) to encourage us to go back to meetings.

  said everyone misses us.

  if you did, why not stop by and say hi every now and then?

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  If you really wanted to fade, you should totally ignore any thought of meeting with them. Yes, them! Because that elder will not come alone. This is nothing more than an investigation to determine if they should go beyond a "friendly?" chit chat. You cannot be altruistic with them.

  Prepare for the worst.
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  Dating

  by Renee86 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  hey all,.

  are you allowed to kiss when you’re dating another jw?.

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  Renee86. Is 86 the year you were born? If it is, then that makes you 36 years old. If this is right, then I must say that you don't have much "grasp" of the world around you. Please don't think me rude, but at age 36, most people have a pretty good knowledge of the world around them and making relationships. Or is it that you are completely baffled about Jehovah's Witnesses? From this and previous posts, you seem to be trying to understand what JW's are about. Just run away from the situation you are getting into as fast as you can. If you persist, you will have a life of heartache. Find a guy who isn't bound by religious superstition and high control.
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  Nosey elders and Pioneer wife's

  by Foolednomore in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i bought a pre-owned mercedes m class .

  my second car.

  and the day i drove it to the hall i was told by an elderrette that is a showy display and too much car.

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  HappyDad

  God forbid that a JW own a pickup truck. Fellow JW's will be like flies on shite wanting you to haul stuff for them.