When I was an elder, I hated when the rest of the "body" asked me to talk to (counsel) someone. Guess my thinking wasn't in tune with the mother ship even back then. I always felt that what a person did and why they did it was their own business. When I had to talk to them, I always tried to leave them feeling good about themselves. Come to think of it...........I never did meet the one mindset criteria. But...................I was a good elder.............was respected by most because of my non-judgemental attitude. Some of the other elders did not like my easygoingness.
But at least I can live with myself today. If I can help anyone in any capacity (don't ask for money)
just let me know.
I have some real horror story's to tell from some of the jc's I was on. The horror was not the person that "sinned", but the questions asked by the other members of the jc. I think some of them really got their rocks off asking the questions they did. Guess they really wished they were the other man in the "sin".
As far as treating one with respect.......I always did that. Can't say the same for the others! It seemed to be the only power they had in their lives......being judges! Because most that I served with were pussy whipped by their wives. They weren't allowed to be men in their own homes. The only machoness they had was when they could "lord it over others".
God.........I hate that religion and many of the idiots who are in power and what it has done to so many. One of these days I expect to hear that an announcement has been made about me. DA'd or DF'd and I don't care. I am luckier than most. I have noone in the borg........my daughter is out too!
That's why I'm HappyDad