Hi Vamp,
I also came to this forum looking for info and insight into my relationship with someone who is a JW. At first the information given to you will seem harsh, blunt and unfitted to the object of your affection. And for the most part it may not apply to the person that you are interested in. But you are a teen and Im to assume that she is as well, and that means that not only does she have to deal with her religious conditioning as it relates to interpersonal relationships, but also her parents and they may still at this point be her main concern.
You are a young man, and I have this much to say in terms of your relationship with God, you should have one. I dont mean that as to pass judgement, however if you are willing to go into a KH and consider making that kind of long term/ extreme commitment for a , you should at least consider doing some soul searching for yourself.
Listen with discretion to what the folks here have to say, I see that they are being a little more delicate with you than they were with me, not nearly as many bold typed RUN messages, but consider that all of the information may be true. Most importantly you are a youth, there will be many more issues to deal with and they will all seem just as important as this one.
Start being wise today!