Posts by Karissa

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IN LOVE & CONFUSED

by unique in

here is my dilemma - short and to the point, need advice.

i met a man several months ago who is jw and we hit it off from the first night we met - (met in lounge) - and then spoke to him on a few occasions.

he admitted to me the first night we went out that he was married, at first i wasn't sure if i should pursue this, then he just swept me off my feet.

Karissa

OH My!

Please read what I wrote on June 5. "My Heart has been broken in two-JW-HE IS MARRIED". You might find my story interesting. .

Your man sounds so much like my ex. i.e. smoking, drinking, the things he says. The only difference is yours admitted he is married. My advice to you is to run.

Great sex with a charming man, telling you everything you want to hear??? Blah Blah Blah... He's married! I know it's hard but you will end up getting hurt if you continue. I myself am still hurting, much better now but still have my moments from time to time. Very Hard!

Find a single guy and I wish you luck- : )

K

PS- WAIT!!! 2 daughters? His name isn't Paul is it? Yikes!

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situation,Hello everyone

by vampmonk in

hey ladies and gentlemen, im vampmonk (obviously) and im new to this thing... i just wanted to ask for any advice possible.

i'm an athiest.

i apologise forehand if this offends any one, but such are the decisions we make in life, but back to my situation.

Karissa

RUN!

: )

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My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

by Karissa in

my boyfriend and i (or i should say ex-boyfriend.

) have been dating for about 5 1/2 months.

this is not a long time i know but within this time we had both fell deeply in love with each other, it was very fast and very strong, heartfelt and beautiful.

Karissa

Hi There,

No, his wife had forgiven him. The last time I spoke to him she was in the background speaking- She is choosing to believe what he is telling her. She doesn't want to see anything. The poor thing- Talk about denial. Also, when he was speaking to me (in front of her) he didn't sound like the man I knew. He was some alien from outer space using the voice of whom I knew.

I feel bad for her and for him too. I know he is pretending for ovious reasons to be something he is not. I am not sure what he is so afraid of but it must be hard not to be able to be truly happy and have to pretend to be the way others think you should be. Sick as it sounds I miss him, I know in my heart he is miserable.

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Karissa made copies of everything, may send off to Cassellberry, FL

by Karissa in

you all helped me more than you know.

whenever i have been feeling down i look and read at all that everyone has written.

i feel as though i have an army of friends that has stood by me through the toughest time i have ever gone through- you guys seemed to know what i needed to hear, even if some of it was hurtful, it was sooo helpful and i needed to hear it.

Karissa

: D

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Karissa made copies of everything, may send off to Cassellberry, FL

by Karissa in

you all helped me more than you know.

whenever i have been feeling down i look and read at all that everyone has written.

i feel as though i have an army of friends that has stood by me through the toughest time i have ever gone through- you guys seemed to know what i needed to hear, even if some of it was hurtful, it was sooo helpful and i needed to hear it.

Karissa

Hi Everyone,

You all helped me more than you know. Whenever I have been feeling down I look and read at all that everyone has written. I feel as though I have an army of friends that has stood by me through the toughest time I have EVER gone through- You guys seemed to know what I needed to hear, even if some of it was hurtful, it was sooo helpful and I needed to hear it. You made me laugh with some of the Brother Dirt Bag comments and you helped me realize what was really happening. You truly helped me get through this damn broken heart. I really loved that SOB and have never been so lost over a man. Fooled I shoud say.

Now I know it's not over yet, still have some pretty weak moments, still feel pretty blue at times but I think I'm going to live through this. It will get better. I'm even almost ready to listen to some normal music- I've been listening to Spanish stations cause every damn song on the radio reminds me of "Brother Dirt Bag" hehe (Don't know spanish.) : )

My friends have all forgiven me and are all happy he's gone- They've missed me these past 5 1/2 months and are happy that I'm back in the picture. At my age I should know better. I surely learned my lesson. Lesson One: Background check - hehe

I'm going to Mexico on the 26th with my friends ( I LOVE MEXICO ) and I cannot wait to get out of the country for a week. Boy do I need it.

I'll keep everyone posted on anything new and thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

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My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

by Karissa in

my boyfriend and i (or i should say ex-boyfriend.

) have been dating for about 5 1/2 months.

this is not a long time i know but within this time we had both fell deeply in love with each other, it was very fast and very strong, heartfelt and beautiful.

Karissa

I'd like a background check first please. lol

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My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

by Karissa in

my boyfriend and i (or i should say ex-boyfriend.

) have been dating for about 5 1/2 months.

this is not a long time i know but within this time we had both fell deeply in love with each other, it was very fast and very strong, heartfelt and beautiful.

Karissa

: ( Thanks so much...

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My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

by Karissa in

my boyfriend and i (or i should say ex-boyfriend.

) have been dating for about 5 1/2 months.

this is not a long time i know but within this time we had both fell deeply in love with each other, it was very fast and very strong, heartfelt and beautiful.

Karissa

Shoot it's not Newberry where they live it's Casselbury, FL

I'm not feeling as well today as I have been. I keep going back and forth.

I'm at work and this is hard also because he worked here too. :(

I hope to God I get over this soon-

Maybe I should plan a trip to Mexico.

.

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My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

by Karissa in

my boyfriend and i (or i should say ex-boyfriend.

) have been dating for about 5 1/2 months.

this is not a long time i know but within this time we had both fell deeply in love with each other, it was very fast and very strong, heartfelt and beautiful.

Karissa

Your right, I do think of only the good things right now. I hate it- Like he and I spending time on his boat fishing or dancing in the living room for hours, cooking together, our walks and talking and talking till 4 or 5 in the morning. These are the type of things I miss the most. These are the things that make me so sad now. What really sucks to is that we didn't have many bad times to focus on. But now that I know what a liar and cheater he is I need to focus on that. Right??? Right!

I don't think I have to worry about ever taking him back- I don't think he would actually ever show his face to me again.

Thanks for your comments- All the comments I have been receiving are helping me more than you know. : )

K

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My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

by Karissa in

my boyfriend and i (or i should say ex-boyfriend.

) have been dating for about 5 1/2 months.

this is not a long time i know but within this time we had both fell deeply in love with each other, it was very fast and very strong, heartfelt and beautiful.

Karissa

I know I shouldn't feel bad for him right now but I do. (Am I an idiot?) Like I said earlier, it's hard to hurt someone you love. And yes, even when he probobly deserves it and after what he did to me it's still hard.

I feel even worse for the wife because I'm sure she believes in him like I did. He really convinced me of his true love. I even now have mixed feeling about this. I go back and fourth with, I know he really loves me TO he faked everything and didn't love me at all.

I have the feeling (after seeing all the people that have read this) that after I have done what I did in posting my our relationship last night that they may already know. What do you think?

K