Overheard:
"Is your cup half full or half empty?"
"Well, depends on whether you just poured something out or poured something in."
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This might be a clue to an important principle.
The effectiveness of one's beliefs.
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There are people of faith who view Christianity only as a crown of thorns to be borne in misery and self-chastisement.
Proving endurance is their purpose like monks who dwell in damp and drafty cells submitting to scourging with a whip!
Faith is seen as a crucible.
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Duty does not bring joy if our life consists of some program running in our head.
When it comes to family, spouse, children, work, health: there are programs running.
Living a full, joyful, practical life comes from personal expressions of our happiness--not in mere dictated behavior.
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Dissonance is a clue to dysfunction in our CUP of GOD
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What we believe often differs a great deal from how we behave.
"I shouldn't eat this dessert...."
"I really don't need to be spending money on this right now...."
"I ought to go get a check-up but..."
BELIEF is totally worthless unless there is integrity connected to the behavior which follows.
The evil of the Jehovah's Witness lifestyle is the awful disparity between all that talk about TRUTH and the bland, burdensome lives they lead!
UNCHARITABLE, burdensome lives they lead!
The promises given to newly baptized converts is: their lives will take on purpose leading to personal fulfillment.
The dismal reality: life will consist of an endless list of WHAT they must do next. They will be straitjacketed with duty, repression, forced activity, monitoring and precious little downtime for relaxation and recharging.
They will be straitjacketed with duty, repression, forced activity, surveillance, and precious little relaxation for recharging.
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The JW lifestyle will drain away their finances, their leisure, their education and their social identity. It will subject their children to deprivations as they give up one thing after another which
It will subject their children to deprivations as they give up one thing after another which would have made them fully functioning members of their neighborhood, school, and community. Instead, they are square pegs left out of round holes. The family of humanity is denied to them! Why? They cannot live a good life with others because of "beliefs" and "truth".
Instead, they are square pegs left out of round holes. The family of humanity is denied to them! Why? They cannot live a good life with others because of "beliefs" and "truth".
A satisfying role in the family of humanity is denied to them! Why? They cannot live a good life with others because of "beliefs" and "truth".
Why? They cannot live a good life with others because of. . . ? BEING HUMAN IS DISALLOWED!
What is wrong with this picture???
A JW lives as a public spectacle of holier-than-thou perfection and obsessive focus on WHAT MUST BE DONE to please Jehovah.
The sorrow and the pity of RELIGIOUS BELIEFS comes when the believer makes a fetish out of arguing over them--instead of--practising
goodness, kindness, self-control, and benevolence!
This leads to splits, shifts, divisions, sects and denominations.
When you look at 'CHRISTIANITY' you are not looking at unity of agreement. No, no no. 40,000 DENOMINATIONS do not come from
agreement!
In colonial times, you could be hanged if you didn't attend church services on Sunday! Can't argue with that one can you? Nope. It was time to move to another location and start your own congregation where staying home on Sunday didn't carry with it the death penalty!
Nope. It was time to move to another location and start your own congregation where staying home on Sunday didn't carry with it the death penalty!
What is the source of controversy? Is it a supernatural bad guy? Satan?
Or is it something very simple and human? Like what? Like trying to make rational sense out of meaningless and random nonsense.
By the year of the Council of Nicea, 325 A.D. the heads of congregations all over the Roman Empire met together and compared scars, wounds, and arguments for the purpose of agreeing on something unifying. Eusebius makes it quite clear in his history of that meeting how much dissent, disagreement, the violent controversy and utter disparity was already rife in "Christianity."
That was 2,000 + years ago! It hasn't changed since the Reformation for Christians.
The Enlightenment of the Renaissance at least provided an alternate path for an intelligent person of inquiry: SCIENCE, art, literature, technology.
There is not now and there NEVER HAS BEEN one thing called "TRUE" Christianity.
Before you shout, 'NO!' hear me out. There is a difference distinct from "True" and that is the "claim" of Truth.
Christianity is a kaleidoscope of opinions and practices.
SO WHY MAKE A FETISH out of arguments?
HOW YOU TREAT PEOPLE demonstrates who you are more than all the beliefs and truth that ever existed!
For 2,000 years the only universal Christian church tortured those who dissented and often put them to death.
Try this test: when you think of Jesus Christ do you think of the way he treated people or all the mysterious things he taught?
If you love him is it for his intellectual grasp of hidden truth--or is it because he healed the blind and made the crippled walk?
That should tell you a great deal about yourself and your grasp of HOW instead of WHAT makes all the difference in the world.
It is not 'what' you think--but HOW you treat others as a result which tells the tale and answers the question:
IS YOUR CUP OF GOD HALF FULL or HALF EMPTY?