"So we are supposed to have enough spirit to walk in it, but not enough to be God’s children and partake at the memorial?"
Great question.
The WTS wants you to believe that the "great crowd" is saved by being part of, and staying close to, the organization that is supposably being lead by the 144,000
The only problem with that, that's not what the bible says.
No where in the bible is salvation found anywhere except through Christ and being "in Christ".
The WTS clearlly says that the great crowd is not part of the New Covenant but the bible clearly says that it is only those in the New Covenant that are saved.
A person is either "in Christ" or they are not. "In Christ" means salvation, not "in Christ" means not saved.
Romans 6
" 1 What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? 3 Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.
5 For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly also be united with him in a resurrection like his. 6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with,that we should no longer be slaves to sin— 7 because anyone who has died [died to sin, baptized into Christ, buried with him, united with him, crucified with him, not died in a physical way as the WTS would have you believe] has been set free from sin."
8 Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. 9 For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. 10 The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God. 11 In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus.
Romans 8
" 1 Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2 because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death."
The only biblical way to be saved is to be in Christ. There are not two saved classes as the WTS would have you believe.
Peace