Oh yeah, it's definatly emotional black mail. Like when she called today. "I just called to see how you were." I've missed you, I know you've been working, but when can we get together." God, I hate myself for even getting in this mess in the first place.
"If the truth hurts most of us so badly that we don't want it told,
it hurts even more grievously those who dare to tell it." (Judge Ben Lindsey, 1869-1943)