Posts by mordenukboy

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what is the weirdest counsel you ever received?

by nb-dfed in

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my husband and i had a committee meeting because of underage drinking.

when he was being counseled, the p.o.

told my husband that he needed to make me wear different clothes to the meeting because it made some of the brothers unable to concentrate.

mordenukboy

after hospitalizing me and needing the police, the only reason i lived if you call it that.

i needed to make a claim for injuries on our state system. that was due to their attack. one elder after 3 yrs hassle to get his tax money back because he didnt want to pay any, decided to personally attack me for the taxes he had to pay for my injuries due to their involvement.

well as far as i know thats a 6 months prison sentence when you dont know and an unlimited fine, and a seven year prison sentence when you do know and an unlimited fine. as far as i know illegal behaviour to avoid paying tax, erm isnt that tax evasion.. including a visit with the co to lace his pockets basically, lets face it thats using his position to get money otherwise he wouldnt be able to do it.

so isnt that the rich man class, alive and kicking as i see it. isnt that a bit of strange counsel ?

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what is the weirdest counsel you ever received?

by nb-dfed in

jw
friends

my husband and i had a committee meeting because of underage drinking.

when he was being counseled, the p.o.

told my husband that he needed to make me wear different clothes to the meeting because it made some of the brothers unable to concentrate.

mordenukboy

ermm might be a bit different, but they demand to put sex guards on me. yeah i reported them. see they say that if im in a place with a girl ill have sex, so they are coming with me uninvited to make sure i dont. what goes through my mind is what they are going to do to stop me, sword in the belly no doubt. now what sort of people was i dealing with , that all their beloved wives and daughters only had to walk through the door to sleep with me, isnt that immoral, and adulterous, now if i need guards on me to make sure i dont have sex shouldnt they have let me get married instead of holding me under sex arrest ?, which i had to report to the police.

isnt that weird ? and isnt sort of threatening me away from sisters to get them to sleep with guys outside the congregation procuring a woman with menaces ?

im still trying to work out why they demand guards on me, to force my compliance, including policing my home. what has that got to do with what the bible teaches ?

and how did i get this status by being a jw ?

didnt the bible say let them marry , so why am i policed to keep me away from girls ?

isnt that an oracle like a roman would keep, and as a request how do i get rid of the sex pests ?

when i necver consented to their organizations wishes of singleness to get preaching done ?

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JW's and interracial marriage?

by c.dawn in

my nephew a jw who is white is dating another jw who is black with the intent to announce their engagement soon.. i had been reading about the past history of the jw's opinion of the black race.

old writings that said they were gods people too, but not intelligent as white etc and not qualified intellectually to go door to door to teach etc.that all people would be white in the new system.. i had read of a rope being run down the pews of the fellowship halls to separate the races during services during the 50's early 60's at the halls that did allow intergrated services... this was supposed to have taken place even up to a few years after de-segregation in the schools and other public places took effect.. that in some areas they had their own hall to meet at and the whites had theirs.

at one point the members of the black hall had asked to meet at the white hall as their building was being repaired or soemthing and they were told no, that some of the members of the white hall wouldn't understand or approve.. and i read that even up into the late 90's, many black members still weren't being given postions or responsibilities that whites had held since the beginning of the jw's.. i was just wondering how far they've come along to improve this image and if anyone knows thier opinion of interracial marriages.

mordenukboy

you mean they let people get married where you live ?

wow ill have to move , they put us under sex arrest down here and the cop shop gets the reports.

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Fear Of Jehovah's Witnesses Stopped Me From Working Today.

by Englishman in

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ok, so there i am at work today, zooming up and down me ladder as i affix fascia boards, soffiting and guttering to the rear of a customers property.. pretty soon it started to rain.. now, good people, fascia-ing, soffit-ing and gutter-ing are not conducive with wet weather.

for several reasons.. 1. rain makes your power tools unsafe.. 2. the ground on which you work gets muddy.

this mud then gets transposed from your shoes onto the rungs of the ladder.

mordenukboy

attacks by my ever loving brothers stopped me working, i had a problem i usually work with computers and electronics, my prob.......i had an internet connection, that was the end of that business. how long , when , to whom, im a technician i have to do that instead they crippled it with attacks, harrasment, bombardment to get their way... what am i supposed to live on, poverty , chastity, and obedience to me.. nuff said. not saying they are all like it but they are here generally.

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Double standard about disfellowshipping, new info, please read

by Jez in

just got back from holidays and read the posts about this topic.

let me clear a few things up to the ones that replied.

i should have mentioned that my story is posted in the womens section entitled "pretending".

mordenukboy

bit fuller explanation.

i was sorta near shepherds bush then roehampton, then went to devil worship number1 morden church of jehovahs catholics.

they forbad me to marry repeatedly used to ring the elders up if i got married to get me done, told me it was a matter of my obedience.

told me it wasnt wrong to marry initself only wrong to marry at the time, they wanted more preaching done.

i claim sex control placed on me therefore sex abuse.

then reports of child abuse, we saw and heard demons, they keep us like oracles. i was unconscious for 36 hrs because of their bashings, threats , harrasment, intimadation, head injuries cops, ambulances, violent men, vandalism, threats of break ins to force my compliance, etc etc. they tried to put congregation guards on me in public in case i had sex, true honest. and then when i should have been in hospital and still have to get the medics in because of them doing it again threw me out without record. thats me. and a lot more besides. does anybody love me here ?

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about demonism

by mordenukboy in

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this is going to sound crazy.. where we live we heard and saw demons over that time of the child abuse bit.. we also heard 3 million people walked out it was only balanced by 3 million newbies is that true does anyone know ?.

it must be verified of course.. i suufered severe injuries with attacks including police ambulances etc.. there seems to be an awful lot of people outside can we get a damage report to know whats wrong .

mordenukboy

this is going to sound crazy.

where we live we heard and saw demons over that time of the child abuse bit.

we also heard 3 million people walked out it was only balanced by 3 million newbies is that true does anyone know ?

it must be verified of course.

i suufered severe injuries with attacks including police ambulances etc.

there seems to be an awful lot of people outside can we get a damage report to know whats wrong

what is going on ?

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hi guys

by mordenukboy in

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ok im a brother from morden they threw me out , i didnt do it, they were forbidding me to get married, unreporterd child abuse could be in the area, they tried to get clever and threw me over the side of the ship.

anyway bethel have no record of my demise it seems that wasnt reported, lets be friends nobody else will talk to me.

mordenukboy

ok im a brother from morden they threw me out , i didnt do it, they were forbidding me to get married, unreporterd child abuse could be in the area, they tried to get clever and threw me over the side of the ship. anyway bethel have no record of my demise it seems that wasnt reported, lets be friends nobody else will talk to me.

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A womans tears

by Maverick in

this is really for the guys, but i know the woman here will have some great insights for us stupid men so i hope y-all will offer up your best.. when the woman i am with starts to tear up or cry i feel totally helpless and useless.

this is one of the most dreaded situations i as a man can ever find myself in.

my older brother, the retired police chief, would get angry if a woman started to cry when he was writing her a ticket, he felt it was an act.

mordenukboy

i look at it this way, woman is a weaker beautiful vessel and shouldnt be hurt, if she cries it upsets me, and frankly i think its very endearing sometimes. it just proves shes a girl and simple tenderness dictates just cuddle her love her and kiss it better, but obviously sometimes some situations demand male grunt to put right so to speak, obviously i couldnt let her be injured if i knew it was dangerous or wrong to her, in any way. i just sort of respond on impulse instead of a rule book. otherwise that being insensible, with no feelings, it gets like that i couldnt stand it, going to a book to see how to hold someone sort of crushed everything. you know the song of solomon not to try to awaken or arouse love until it feels inclined. so those feelings are always spontaneous. i cant handle rulebooks over those feelings, so i never use them its terrible. just let ur feelings flow. at least i see it that way.

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Ethical question here, what to do?

by Snapdragon in

hey all, i have a hypothetical ethical question.. i know for a fact (having heard directly from the now-adult) a certain man molested at least 2 children in the the 1970's.

of course at the time this wasn't discussed and the creepo has gotten off virtually scott free.. i just found out some interesting medical information on him and was wondering if this should be shared with his victims.. of course this is hypothetical, right, i work in the health care profession and am bound by law not to divulge personal medical history.. that being said: the information of this guy doesn't have a lick to do with the past.

its just interesting.

mordenukboy

just as another pint we are used to jehovahs catholics where i live. and we report them and will continue to do so.

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Ethical question here, what to do?

by Snapdragon in

hey all, i have a hypothetical ethical question.. i know for a fact (having heard directly from the now-adult) a certain man molested at least 2 children in the the 1970's.

of course at the time this wasn't discussed and the creepo has gotten off virtually scott free.. i just found out some interesting medical information on him and was wondering if this should be shared with his victims.. of course this is hypothetical, right, i work in the health care profession and am bound by law not to divulge personal medical history.. that being said: the information of this guy doesn't have a lick to do with the past.

its just interesting.

mordenukboy

actually i was under state instruction to report a sisters child who was reported as, raped by a brother and sister while in their care. it mat not have been reported , seems something dicey went on i have to talk with the police about it. i just told everyone authorities, bethel, cong etc, social services, giving all the details i had. it was funny i was removed from the local cong, by the local committee without any information on the event being passed to bethel who were fine to me , while the local cong wasnt, funny that . trying to sort that out, youre not going to beleive this they also forbid people to get married. and run round your genitals policing them. thats been reported too everywhere . dont look at me.