18 Years ago JWD was a "Fight Club" I've seen it all over 25 years being a part of exiting JW groups
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JWD a Dysfunctional Place?
by Victor_E inwith the recent blood baths we have seen in this forum it got me wondering of how you can objectively understand it and more importantly not let it affect you if you so choose.
what i write is not meant to be taken as gospel truth since there is no gospel truth nor is it my intention to get on my soap box since i left it when i walked out of the kingdom hall.
most of what i have to say is subjective based on personal experience and i feel no need or desire to debate anyone about anything i write.
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The Courage to Heal
by Victor_E inthe courage to heal.
in a study done at the university of houston researchers concluded that a person with deep psychological issues would go through a five-step process.
i concur with this study after having worked with offenders on probation for drug and alcohol problems and sexual and physical abuse survivors.. .
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I wrote his post 17 years ago under a different account. Still relevant.
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Anatomy of a former JW
by Victor inone of the respondents on my post on mental illness stated that it was the same of ex jw's.
i thought about this for a couple of days and drawing from my personal experience, i can say that this is mostly true.
if one is disfellowshipped, the act of forcibly cutting off all ties to a jw's way of life is painful and in some cases inducing cognitive dissonance.
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JW's and all other cults have always existed and always will so long as man fears the unknown and needs someone to turn to as an insurance to silence the existential anxiety. Once you have been in a cult every organization has cultish practices. I've seen it in corporate America, agencies, and even family owned businesses.
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Mental Illness among JW's
by Victor indisclaimer: this article has some broad generalizations that will have exceptions to what is stated.
this is the only way i can even attempt to address the topic.
i've looked for scholarly articles published on peer reviewed journals for years.
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Yes an opinion Vidiot. The new normal is prosperity gospel enterprises ala Joel Olsteen. A different type of enslavement that builds dependence.
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Mental Illness among JW's
by Victor indisclaimer: this article has some broad generalizations that will have exceptions to what is stated.
this is the only way i can even attempt to address the topic.
i've looked for scholarly articles published on peer reviewed journals for years.
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In my opinion all religions ameliorate the existential anxiety and offer a means to transcend one’s humaness
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Anatomy of a former JW
by Victor inone of the respondents on my post on mental illness stated that it was the same of ex jw's.
i thought about this for a couple of days and drawing from my personal experience, i can say that this is mostly true.
if one is disfellowshipped, the act of forcibly cutting off all ties to a jw's way of life is painful and in some cases inducing cognitive dissonance.
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Sea Breeze everyone is at a different place at a different time post their ex JW experience. -
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Mental Illness among JW's
by Victor indisclaimer: this article has some broad generalizations that will have exceptions to what is stated.
this is the only way i can even attempt to address the topic.
i've looked for scholarly articles published on peer reviewed journals for years.
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All religion is an antidote for existential anxiety
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Anatomy of a former JW
by Victor inone of the respondents on my post on mental illness stated that it was the same of ex jw's.
i thought about this for a couple of days and drawing from my personal experience, i can say that this is mostly true.
if one is disfellowshipped, the act of forcibly cutting off all ties to a jw's way of life is painful and in some cases inducing cognitive dissonance.
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One of the respondents on my post on Mental Illness stated that it was the same of ex JW's. I thought about this for a couple of days and drawing from my personal experience, I can say that this is mostly true.
If one is disfellowshipped, the act of forcibly cutting off all ties to a JW's way of life is painful and in some cases inducing cognitive dissonance. In short, incoherent thinking that is at times schizophrenic. Platforms such as this, can be an aid to work through this trauma to help one understand the cultish actions and flawed theology of the WT.
At the very least, it's a shared community of common experiences and at best, a database of useful information to get a complete education on every aspect of JW's and the journey afterwards.
In search of meaning.
Auschwitz survivor and psychiatrist Viktor Frankel was able to discover within himself a greater inner freedom and peace than his captors and find meaning to his existence. This is critical to start a journey of self discovery of persona l truths.
Forums will never fill the need of professional help and they can even contribute to being stifled in one's healing or evolutionary growth.
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Ex JW Doctors/Lawyers/Etc.....?
by Iamallcool innobody responded so far on my previous thread.
no problem.
the last sentence i asked if you know of any doctors or lawyers, etc..that left the borg too?
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JW's have never had any professional rational free thinking demographic that exists in other "main stream" religions. One they cannot be easily converted as rational thinkers, and two they can never become one if they are born into the religion. The organization is made up of working class blue collar workers who generally have no education beyond what is mandated by the government.
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Ex JW 12 Steps Continued
by Victor instep 4 make a searching and fearless moral inventory of yourself.
to err is human.
the bible (if you are a believer) has a written moral code.
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Step 4 Make a searching and fearless moral inventory of yourself.
To err is human. The Bible (if you are a believer) has a written moral code. JW's add to this canon many more rules and dictates that are man and created by men who never raised a family in the real world. Exiting JW's must discard the guilt and shame to find their own goodness and moral compass or they are destined to suffer needlessly for decades.
Step Admit to yourself, others, and to God or your higher power the exact nature of your wrongs.
Get psychotherapy and you will find the root cause of your wrongs. Most issues are created in childhood. Heal the issue change the behavior
Step 6. Be entirely ready to grow up and take ownership these defects of character to discover your true divine nature.
Some issues are generational sins of your fathers. Whatever you inherited or created from a flawed environment can be changed.
Step 7. Make amends with those you harmed (if this is possible).
Some ex JW's are pained from never saying I'm sorry to deceased loved ones.
Step 8. Develop awareness to recognize when you are wrong and own it. Correct course as part of the journey.
Step 9-12 Enjoy a new found freedom and follow your path
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