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The Debate: Do JW's Need Respect?
by Mindchild inthis thread will hopefully serve as the platform for a friendly debate about the issue of how much respect the watchtower society deserves from ex-jehovah's witnesses.
do we blast the hell out of the borg and don't let a kind word in edgewise?
do we acknowledge that they have done some things right and (shudder) even good?
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The Debate: Do JW's Need Respect?
by Mindchild inthis thread will hopefully serve as the platform for a friendly debate about the issue of how much respect the watchtower society deserves from ex-jehovah's witnesses.
do we blast the hell out of the borg and don't let a kind word in edgewise?
do we acknowledge that they have done some things right and (shudder) even good?
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We as ex jehovah witnesses should give
sincere jehovah witnesses there respect
since they are being mislead as we once were being
mislead.It isn't easy, but people gave us ex-jehovah
witnesses the respect when we were jehovah witnesses
defending the watchtower out of sincerity.How are
we any better or smarter then they are ? If we were
we would have never became one in the first place.Those who run the watchtower bible and tract society
should not at all be given respect AT ALL FROM EX JEHOVAH WITNESSES.They are the brain washing bandits who play god
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You can live forever on paradise on earth
by BERNARD inhello people im feeling great, im just passing through to say.
you can live forever on paradise on earth all you want.
its 2002. and bernard is having a feild day as an ex jw the past two years.. my wife and kids are going to the circuit assembly tommorrow and.
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rhett your an ass read the post again if you can. you bitch
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circuit assembly today
by BERNARD inhey guys good news my wife is showing how faithful she is today by not going to the assembly today with the kids.she don't go out in service with the kids and is irregular at the meetings screwing up my private tyme.
i use to argue with my wife about taken my kids to the hall and service and she would go.
now i do the opposite and she don't go, i leave all my anti jw books and tapes around i do know she .
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rhett can't read for shit
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circuit assembly today
by BERNARD inhey guys good news my wife is showing how faithful she is today by not going to the assembly today with the kids.she don't go out in service with the kids and is irregular at the meetings screwing up my private tyme.
i use to argue with my wife about taken my kids to the hall and service and she would go.
now i do the opposite and she don't go, i leave all my anti jw books and tapes around i do know she .
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I and my wife have become closer in fact since we stop fighting
about the jw we do talk about the UN scandal and other topics reasonably now and she seem too slack at her own pace. She don't pray or study with the kids about jehovah the pressure she get is from her mother to continue to go regularly. So there you have It learn to add no fuel to there fire there light well soon blow out on its own. ....ain't that right fred
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circuit assembly today
by BERNARD inhey guys good news my wife is showing how faithful she is today by not going to the assembly today with the kids.she don't go out in service with the kids and is irregular at the meetings screwing up my private tyme.
i use to argue with my wife about taken my kids to the hall and service and she would go.
now i do the opposite and she don't go, i leave all my anti jw books and tapes around i do know she .
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hey guys good news my wife is showing how faithful she is today by not going to the assembly today with the kids.She don't go out in service with the kids and is irregular at the meetings screwing up my private tyme. I use to argue with my wife about taken my kids to the hall and service and she would go. Now I do the opposite and she don't go, I leave all my anti jw books and tapes around I do know she
reads some of it. she is thanking about sending the kids to the ymca after school when there older because its cheaper. I teased her this morning about not going to the assembly to get that spiritual food and that she need to read her year book about how the brothers travel miles on foot and cross rivers to get to the bookstudy. yes im an ass because I sit back and watch tyme tell on them. I don't need to argue a cult,my kids are find and my wife goes only with pressure
from her mother I call them the phony ones.I kept my family together and I learned to beat that cult mindset by not playing the devil they say i am.I've been da'd for two years now and is winning my family over. P.s my mother in law can't speak to me because im da'd an added privilage to my happiness. lol -
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You can live forever on paradise on earth
by BERNARD inhello people im feeling great, im just passing through to say.
you can live forever on paradise on earth all you want.
its 2002. and bernard is having a feild day as an ex jw the past two years.. my wife and kids are going to the circuit assembly tommorrow and.
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hi you guys,you miss the whole point all who posted except alliwanttodoislive.Its not about my family anymore and being angry, its about turning my energy to positive things about my individuality and the not too take it seriously as I use too. Remember most of us were jehovah witnesses wanting to prove a piont that went no where. I have all my anti-jehovah witness books and tapes from randy walters laying around and that's as far as I can take it with my family. Yes I do love them unconditional that's why I allow my wife her choice and allow her to take the kids im not a control freak like the wathchtower because they will grow up and choose for themselves what's best to for them as individuals. I can only live my life I don't like the watchtower and there lies but i understand not to feed anymore into there bs by not allowing my family make there choices it does not hurt me anymore because im free too set an example for my kids to be your self because everyone else is taken. I do not waste my life proving points to my jw family I just laugh at them and tease them and just living mines that's the maturity.so my circumstance is one im happy with ty very much.
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You can live forever on paradise on earth
by BERNARD inhello people im feeling great, im just passing through to say.
you can live forever on paradise on earth all you want.
its 2002. and bernard is having a feild day as an ex jw the past two years.. my wife and kids are going to the circuit assembly tommorrow and.
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hello people im feeling great, im just passing through to say
You can live forever on paradise on earth all you want. Its 2002
and Bernard is having a feild day as an ex jw the past two years.
my wife and kids are going to the circuit assembly tommorrow and
sunday, guess what im so happy for them, because i'll be home alone and free to roam.Do I feel bitter or angry?I use too, until I thought
to myself hey let them live forever, I get upset when they miss the meetings cause I can't do my dirt. Picture that, boy oh boy my mother in law can't harass me or talk to me because i da'd myself I would like to thank the watchtower personally for that dumbass rule I took
advantage off.Meetings nights its cold I get home I don't have to go back out but my wife and kids do awe then I say bye bye try not too live forever without me. then I tease my wife about how my family who are not jw who show me unconditional love where as her fam that are jw
shows conditional love which would jesus practice you phony christian
. yes I don't argue to prove a fool wrong let them have there way.p.s. I know a jw will say oh your going to be destroyed with no hope of ressurrection. My response your going to live forever on paradise
on earth all right keep hope alive but death smiles at everyone, so smile back and let me live my life youngster.Im right till you live forever lol picture that.watch.
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Beggin for help
by DIAMOND inladies and gentlemen of the jury listen to my story then make a wise and fair decision in my case.. i'm a 42 year old male.
been in the truth for 32 years.
married to a witness.
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hi diamond:
I hope your doing fine and well. I da'd myself only because my mother in law was a pain in the rear in, now she can't speak to me thank jehovah and his earthly organization for there stupid rules. my wife still go with the kids when its time to put on a show for her moms. I feel great I had many friends but choose to leave. In your case along with other people on this board suggested is to fade away if you can stomach that route. anyway my family is going to the circuit assembly this sat and sun. where will i be ? smiling enjoying my freedom of not feeling guilty sitting with them but home watching the football playoffs.
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ITS BEEN AWHILE
by BERNARD inhello people, it's been awhile since i posted.
i've been moving.
on with my life and its been great.i visit the board on the.
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Hello people, it's been awhile since I posted. I've been moving
on with my life and its been great.I visit the board on the
weekends to find out the latest on the borg and who left the
borg. My wife and kids still go to the meetings when they do
I throw a party for myself loud music and drinks of freedom of
thought. my mother law has not spoken to me in two years which
is a good thing as if she can add a cubit to my life span. I don't
argue with my wife like I use too about the phony watchtower,I just let her make an ass out of herself. I was doing the christmas for the kids but then my mother in law called and now my kids refuse christmas
so I told them we will have family day on dec 21 then they can open all there toys and my wife is supporting it.I learned to beat the watchtower mentality by just laughing at them I learned to laugh at my self and remember I was in there state of mind for 11 years as a
jw. My wife have showed signs of doubt but my mother in law snaps her back into the borg frame of mind. But as an individual I don't care as long as im not sitting in the kingdom listening to that same ole bullshit.The witnesses swear to jesus people can't leave without them,
the witnesses swear to jesus people can't be happy without them. I learned to live as if the jw or wt don't exist and learn to put less
energy in proving them wrong and just live my life with certainty and
leave the real truth on its own to catch up with them.Take care and i'll be reading the posts and will give everybody an update on my situation in a couple of months. P.S the u.n thing took my wife for a loop but you know blind faith justify anything well im happy for her, its good to have a wife at times who don't question anything.lol