I know where you are coming from, but the best thing for you to do is to get closer (befriend) to your parents. You say that you have a five month old child and have not seen your parents in eight months? I detect some relationship problems. Most grandparents would take the next flight out when the child is due! You will not win over, reason with, your parents if you distance yourself. To deprogram them you need to be close. The WTBS has instilled in them (brainwashed) to throw up a defensive barrier when a negative comment is made of the org. The best thing to help is to get them to start to thinking again on their own (pre WTBS). You can't do this if you have no relationship with them.
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Faded 10 years ago, now considering DA'ing!
by NutFlush inlong-time occasional lurker, first-time poster.
cliffs notes version: i'm thinking of da'ing in order to shake my family up a bit, even though i haven't been involved with jws in more than 10 years.
longer version: i was raised as a jw but never got baptized.
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Things No Jehovahs Witness Will Ever Tell You
by Bangalore inthings no jehovah's witness will ever tell you.. .
http://alwaysonasaturday.blogspot.com/2009/08/things-no-jehovahs-witness-will-ever.html.
bangalore.
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mann377
When looking at the JW's remember this: A religion that has all the answers..........allows no questions!
This is what I found out after many years at Bethel.
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BREAKING NEWS: WATCHTOWER IS STILL A MEMBER OF UN- SOURCE SAYS.
by Scott77 ini have read today this quote from one member on facebook going by the name of ruth eeker.. .
based on her quote, she states that "as well in regards to the un, the society has various name versions registered still in the un.
so they are still not completely out of the supposed beast!".
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Amazing!......Thanks jigsup.
Just goes to show what a devious organization the WTBTS is. The sad thing is that the loyal ones will not believe this.
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Andersinfo: Swingle - Sydlik - Fekel - Jackson
by TheOldHippie insince you've known quite a few of the gb members etc., and mentioned that when jaracz entered a room, sydlik would leave, i'd like to ask you about sydlik - what was your impression of him?
it seems he was sort of a reformist without enough power, but i've also read that some say he had a less glamorous role at the 1980 events?.
and then swingle, of whom i've heard nothing but nice things - your impression?.
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Fekel; I sat next to him at Bethel (meals) and had many conversations with him. The table assignment lasted for 10 months and in that time I got to know him. My opinion of him was that he was a very caring and loving person. Some of the things of interest that I remmember him telling me: He came to Bethel around 1917 after he brokeup with a girl friend out on Long Island. He owned a Stanley Steamer and would drive out there to see her. One of the most intriguing items was the time I came upon him at the breakfest table one morning and he was having a very heated argument with Knorr (they did not see me take my seat at the table). From what I could gather they were discussing a GB matter about taking down the presidents power as it existed in 1973. This "heated discussion" was very unlike Fekel as he was a very mild man. He and I would go shoping on Wed. night along Atlantic Av. a number of times and have long discussions. The one thing of ironry that came out of all of our discussions was the thought of not fearing any man and this thought is what gave me the strength to leave the cult. When he died around 1987 I was out of the borg, I still cried like a baby. I will always have fond thoughts of him and great respect.
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Watchtower is kicking people out again, in the name of LOVE?
by Bethelite Elder inright now at bethel, they are laying off and reassigning again.
if you have cancer or some other illness, you are a liability and it's time to pack.
i remember the night when we had the special talk about there being a great need in the field and some would be sent out.
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B.E................I know how the ones asked to leave feel. I will never forget the look on the faces of the construction workers back in 1974 when Knorr came to lunch one Wed. and said that the work was over they had two weeks to leave. There was one older couple that had been there about three years. They had sold everything and gone to Bethel, expecting 1975 to end all. I rode to the book study with them that night and he could hardly drive, they were so upset. So no money, no job, no home to go to and no future. I often wonder what happened to them.
Thank god I'm out!
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Name Things JWs Believe That Are Not Biblically Proven
by minimus inwitnesses try to convince you that everything they teach is supported from the scriptures.. where in the bible does it say anything about "special pioneers" or "publishers"?.
where in the bible does it say you can take some blood components but not others?.
where in the bible does it say that 1914 was a marked year?.
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Heavenly calling being closed out in 1931
appointment of GB in 1918
no military service or alternet service,
selling magazines and books
marking ones who ask questions
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church's use of power
by mann377 inhere is news article from jacksonville fl about what a local church did to find a member who was blogging about what he did not like about the preacher.
could this have far reaching affects?
http://www.jacksonville.com/news/columnists/mark_woods/2009-04-10/story/churchs_use_of_power_is_troubling.
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mann377
Here is news article from Jacksonville Fl about what a local church did to find a member who was blogging about what he did not like about the preacher. Could this have far reaching affects?
Give me your comments....................
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Reunion with Former Bethelite friend
by jesussaves inhello board, .
so i had a really good friend go to bethel years ago and he got put out to pasture like so many others.
i procured his telephone number from one of his df'ed family members and sent him a text message asking if he'd like to make contact with an old friend.
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mann377
Good to hear! You can count that as a return visit.
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He really did not believe all that 1914 crap. I know this from listening him talk to Charley Feckel at breakfest one morning. I sat down and they did not see me (it was early). Charley got real mad.
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who?went to bet-hell
by mattbetrayed inhi guys ,just woundered how many of you went to bet-hell?i went in 1987 and that finished me with the cult,it did take me 3 yrs before i left the cult but now iam so much better off for going,.. saw all the lies and two faced crap they spout just could not belive it at the time.now it is just what you expect.. please tell us if you went there and what you hated..
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mann377
Press Operator, both Brooklyn and WT Farms. What did I hate?...............dish duty, all night watchmen duty, canning all weekend late summer, press room overseer, cold winters.