Venice:
If I can start off with a kiss from you? Then I'll consider.(though your comment is a tad bit late)
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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To JanH
by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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teejay:
Come on now! You know we here! If you had called them it would have been a simple deal we coulda settled out of court. You know you my peeps! My man Six is killin me though!!!!!! Vive le JW.com!!!!!!
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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i just had my meeting with the ELDERS !!!!
by jurs inhey everyone ,.
i'm high as a kite.
it went awesome !!!!
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Hey Jurs:
Great expereince dude! It seems you got to em. Hopefully you sowed some seeds man. I wish you well.
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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To JanH
by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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Six:
R O T F L M B A O !!!!!!!!!!!!
YOUSE A M'FUCKIN FOOL MAN!!!!!!!!!!
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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To JanH
by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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Mommy:
I think I understand the gist of your post. I respect your opinion and I think that wha you said is indeed true.
I think your screw me statement is in regards to Jan's reluctance to accept my apology because if anything ever happened between us again and I insulted him then it would be his fault. Perhaps it may still be your view of the fact that he's insulted me in this thread and maybe it's my fault for responding.
At any rate I wonder why all this guy's friends always seem to have to rationalize his behaviour for him. It seems he never really says what he means, or what he says is always a result of what may have happened to him or maybe it just came out wrong. He never explains himself or his actions he always allows others to do i for him.
This thread did not have to turn into what it did. If he didn't accept my apology all he had to do was say "thanks, but no thanks I think you went waaay to far in this instance and i think it best we avoid one another". No, but what did he do? He tried to question my character, my sincerity and used the equivalent of the slur I used (for which I apologized) in doing so. To which I can do nothing but respond "WTF"!!!!!!!!
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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To JanH
by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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teejay:
All I was saying is that there may be some mitigating explanations to Jan's reluctance to accept your apology. While I think it may be hard for him, I think he should at least work in that direction. Time will tell.
I have to disagree with you on this one. If there were mitigating circumstances, he would never under any circumstance use the word himself in demeaning others. Kismet said he referred to others on H20 as nazis. He just called me facist. So I don't think the insult, damaged him emotionally in any way. I feel this is a personal conflict between two ppl who share a mutual dislike for one another. Nothing more, nothing less. I am of course willing to stay out of his way, if he stays out of mine. However, I reserve the right to defend myself and any others at my own discretion, at any place, time and in any circumstance here or elsewhere.
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bigboi
bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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To JanH
by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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teejay:
Yeah, I know what I just assked everyone to do. Sue me. I had to respond to this. Yes, I did call JanH a nazi. I owned up to that, never meant it to be taken as a racial slur. I didnt even know that the Nazis were considered a race. I thought it was a political party that had racist overtones. That was my real insinuation. I spoke from anger and I should never have lost my self-control. I thought about semding him an email, but since I insulted the man publicly, I thought it best to apologize publicly. An apology is an apology regardless to where it's said. He's made his decision not to accept it and I accept that. I wasn't the only one hurling insults, I was insulted repeatedy myself by more than one individual over the past few days.
I didn't bring up race in any of those threads either, I responded to insinuations made about me because of my race in those threads. All you have to do is read them to see that. The word nigger was used repeatedly too I might add, yet the focus has consistently stayed on me and any other person that has spoken his mind about Janh's actions. To me that's a double standard.If it's true, then why excoriate Jan with a racial slur of the worst kind when he had NEVER been guilty of sinking that low himself? That wouldn't be fair. And it wasn't fair. Why expect Jan to easily sluff off injuries that had been piling up and simply say, "oh... oh well, all's forgiven." The injury may be too deep. Jan's still a human being--We all have feelings.
I did it because i was angry, point blank. Again, I admitted as much when I apologized. Of course it wasn't fair to the man. That's why I apologized publicly to him. I didn't know how he would take it. I just assumed either he would accept or he wouldn't accept it. I mean that's about all that could happen. I don't think anyone should expect Janh to let it go easily, but given that he's insulted a slew of ppl, you just tend to think that he understands that sometimes things get out of hand and you say things you don't mean. You might understand me a bit more if you look up Kismet's post on Kent's apology thread.
Here's the link: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?site=3&id=7360&page=6
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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TRUE Christian Ex-negro Ministry!
by Kent inwe(tm)re standing for the truth that negroes can change.
a recent gathering of christians invoking god(tm)s old testament standards, a nationwide ex-negro ministry, drew more than 850 people to london, england, to proclaim that hope for change is possible for those still struggling with acting like a negro.
thousands of former colored people can celebrate a new life because someone cared enough to share with them the truth of god's healing love.
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Kent:
We can do that, most definitely! Bendrr and I will stop by on our way to the beach! Drink all you want man, I'm buyin!!!!!
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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To JanH
by bigboi injanh:.
janh, i would like to offer you my sincerest apology for calling you a nazi in kent's apology thread.
i must say i didn't intend for it to be taken as a slur against your race.
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Hey Everybody:
Six:
Yep, it's been one of those weeks for me. Seems like I can't even say I'm sorry the right way, man.
To everyone else who posted on this thread:
Thanks for your comments and thoughts. I didn't really expect this to come up again. It fell from the first board a couple of days ago withno response from Janh and I thought that was the end of it. When it comes to making judgements about ppl we're all capable of making of our own decisions. So I don't see any benefit of turning this into another degenerative thread. I'm asking all of you to please let it drop and post no more responses. Thanks in advance.
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia
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TRUE Christian Ex-negro Ministry!
by Kent inwe(tm)re standing for the truth that negroes can change.
a recent gathering of christians invoking god(tm)s old testament standards, a nationwide ex-negro ministry, drew more than 850 people to london, england, to proclaim that hope for change is possible for those still struggling with acting like a negro.
thousands of former colored people can celebrate a new life because someone cared enough to share with them the truth of god's healing love.
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Bendrr:
I'm glad you guys understand now. Hey man,I'm at that beach,dawg. Hey, I got the BUSCH. Yep, that's right BUSCH! It's not just for rednecks anymore! LOL!!!!!!
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bigboi
"it ain't what ya do. it's how you do it" quote from the song "True Honeybunz" by Bahamadia