DF,
Welcome! I'm not quite sure you are here since you sound like you are already convinced to become a JW. That's fine! It's your decision dear. Most of the people here have a different opinion about JW's because of their personal experiences. Few of us HATE JWs - we hate what they've put us and our loved ones through. It's hating the action, not the person. But differing opinions are okay. Everyone's entitled to that.
I suggest you pray long and hard about your decision...do lots of research on their beliefs...and take the plunge. I get the feeling you're like me - I like to get people's opinions, but sometimes I need their assurance that I did the right thing. This is something that you'll be on your own with. Be independent. Make your own decision.
Godspeed to you!
Billygoat