Sorry, sweetie.
lonelysheep
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do i go with my gut instinct???(long, im sorry, but i need help)
by theinfamousone inso, simply put, i am in love... and love makes a man do some really stupid things.... love makes a pretty damn intelligent man feel pretty damn stupid quite often as well... so here's my story... i have been dating this girl for almost a year now... she is beautiful, sweet, and really just everything i imagined in a life mate... she lives with me... she doesnt work, while i do full time, and also go to school... i make very good money, so that does not bother me... but heres where it all begins... a few months ago, she went to cuba with her sisters, and imoved her into my place while she was gone, her idea, not mine.. now we keep our condoms in a certain place.... anyways, her box of condoms was gone, with her... when she comes back, our little box of condoms is empty.... instead of asking her about it, i explained it to myself as she must have given them to her sister.... .
while i am gone at work, i usually give her a call on my breaks... i notice that she never answers the phone between 6-8 pm.. home or cell... her explanation is that she is always in the shower... the problem with that is that she is always coming out of the shower when i get home.... i get home at around nine... so either she is taking a 3 hour shower or she is taking two showers a night..... she disappears off the face of the earth everytime she goes home to visit her family... like shes not home, shes not answering her phone and only ever calls me when she is in her car....her explanation is that she is at a cousins house.. conveniently, one that i do not know..... last night she went to a wedding... it was over at 11, i know this because she had told me, nd a friend of mine tht was there said that it ended then,,, it was a dry wedding, no dancing... very religious people... i was supposed to meet her at 130 today, i got to the train station that she was coming to, 15 minutes early and waited over an hour there... finally as i decied to walk back home, she gives me a call... i will be home at 5, meet me at the train.... of course, i have been calling her since last night at 11 to tell her i would meet her at 130 as she had planned... i made brunch for her, which is now in the garbage... i was scared shitless she had been hit by a car or dead since her phone has been off since last night.... i asked her why she is so late, i was helping move things until 3am last night... bull shit.. all the gifts were given prior to the weding and the bride and groom had already moved into their new place.... i know because she has told me in the past.....her phone was dead according to her... but all of the sudden, she is able to use it.... no charger, but she can use it..... i did confront her once, and she exploded on me!!!!
like screamed and screamed and said she was insulted i even asked... textbook defensive behaviour right????.
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We are we almost all black now? Especially CO's.
by coaster infor the past couple of years at my district conventions, i have been unable to actually listen to most of it, so my mind is in many places.
one such place was to count people in several of the other sections as to blacks and whites.
section 132..42 white and 137 black, section 133..36 white and 144 black, and so on.
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lonelysheep
I'm sure it depends on where you live and the various populations within that area of the country/state. I've only experienced black CO's in the areas I've lived that weren't overwhelmingly anglo-saxon. Sociological statistics are interesting.
I once sat in a "black" section at a district convention. Except I had to leave halfway through because the wafting scent of KFC waiting to be opened at lunch was making my stomach growl like a mother.
*daniel-p runs away and hides*
Why bother? Do you feel better now? Perhaps you do, along with the board's inhouse prejudiced ones.
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Where are YOU on the NEEDS Pyramid?
by lonelysheep injgnat's statement here reminded me of the needs pyramid, and my placement on it as a jw potential convert, as well as where i am now.
jgnat: "besides the failure to love their vocation, i think a big problem is that with the witnesses there is only one cause and only one activity.
there is no accommodation for various talents or abilities.
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lonelysheep
Right...the top of the pyramid is blocked unless you are the rule-maker in the jw's.
Anyone or anything getting in the way of a person's self-actualization can create despair. -
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lonelysheep
I'm answering this as to my feelings on bums, not 'homeless'.
I don't want to go to work, but I must earn a living. Prostitutes work, landscapers work, bums don't TRY to work. How much help should a person give someone who never wishes to help themselves?
Usually, I feel like yelling at the same bums I see everyday for the last 6 years, panhandling at the light rather than go "lower" themselves to actually do crap work for money. It's easier to stand there, I guess. I don't feel that brand new $120 Timberland boots and a haircut every so often are necessary to stand out at an intersection. This includes when they have more expensive, warmer winter coats than I do. So, sympathy is the last thing I feel when they ask hundreds of drivers every single day for money to feed their whiskey-smelling breath. Then they stay that way, year after year. Yet, they're probably much happier than me since they don't have to obide by rules 9 hours a day for a paycheck.
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My Brother Died in a Car Wreck Last Night
by WLG ini just found out about an hour ago.
he wasn't even old enough to drink yet.. to make it even sh*ttier, he had called me a few weeks ago and asked if he could come out here with me but i couldn't do it at the time.
so of course the first thing that comes to mind is if i had done something different it wouldn't have happened.. he was going through the sh*t as i call it, when witnesses go off the deep end and get into everything in the world to stop hurting and they don't even know what is wrong.
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lonelysheep
WLG--I'm sorry!!!!!!!!!!!
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Where are YOU on the NEEDS Pyramid?
by lonelysheep injgnat's statement here reminded me of the needs pyramid, and my placement on it as a jw potential convert, as well as where i am now.
jgnat: "besides the failure to love their vocation, i think a big problem is that with the witnesses there is only one cause and only one activity.
there is no accommodation for various talents or abilities.
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lonelysheep
Jgnat's statement here reminded me of the needs pyramid, and my placement on it as a jw potential convert, as well as where I am now.
Jgnat: "Besides the failure to love their vocation, I think a big problem is that with the Witnesses there is only one cause and only one activity. There is no accommodation for various talents or abilities. What of the creative Witness who likes to cook, sew, paint, or play an instrument? How is the introvert Witness accommodated? What of the motherly types who love to work with children? The caring personalities who love nothing more than to provide individualised care for a shut-in? The hard-working helpers who fix and build? (1 Corinthians 12)."
A Brooklyn gem was Andrew Maslow, the psychologist who constructed this pyramid.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Maslow
Where are you? (Not something to answer here if you don't want to.)
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lonelysheep
oh. and thick girls.
I will always appreciate a man who likes thick girls.
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lonelysheep
Vanilla brunette swirl.
What's that?
I was, Min.
The typical geek, I find cute, too. It varies, really. There's no way for a person to tell what I'm attracted to, so I've been told.
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Lazy people at the gym
by I quit! inhas anyone else noticed this?
the people that go to a gym and will sit in the drive way for ten minutes waiting for a parking space that is close to the front door to become available so they don't have to walk.
i see this all the time.
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lonelysheep
sitting on a machine just talking and not using it or not wiping the sweat of the equipment when they are done with it.
Yes, both of those. Where I went, you get booted out for not wiping. Another one that annoys me is when people leave magazines on the treadmills or elipticals! You bring it up here, you take it with you when you're done!
*sigh* I miss going to the gym.
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lonelysheep
A built physique, green eyes, tan skin, brown/grey hair.
