I agree with Lady Zombie, in that I too hope my elderly parents never find out that they were conned, tricked, scammed etc. It would totally destroy them at their age.
I used to want them to wake up to the reality but the more I pointed out the flaws in the borg the more they vehemently denied it until they painted me 'evil apostate and 'friend of Satan!' Yeah! Whatever.
Then the changes in the borg started to come in, the Awake, WT reductions and the book study scrapping and the Public talk reductions and I suspect they started to wonder what was happening. Surely if the end was imminent they should be meeting together more!?
Yes! It all started to make no sense at all!
Then, they started doing so many jobs on their house, rebuild, extensions, conservatory, new kitchen, new bathroom, new porch etc the list was and is endless. All the things they never bothered with because 'Armageddon is coming!'
They still appear extremely miserable but, there is nothing to be done for it now!
At least they didn't give all their money to the WT Society!
But there does seem to be a slow awakening of JWs and the reality is making them sick.