I agree 100% that it is not right to have a rule where you need two people. [deleted] As far as not having a head for the household, it might do more harm than good.
Just let me take in this new information and digest it more fully before breathing down my neck for having a doubt every now and then. I have been told so long to place pieces of the puzzle together and to be patient for many years, it will take some time to gather up some sence of direction again.
BTW this is a very touchy subject for most, and very hard to compromise since it is a detestable sin. So I am truly sorry for any kind of rash judgements that I made about the Silent Lambs Org.