Maybe it does depend on the cong. ...and circumstance. A couple of funerals I have been to have had d/f family present. They were cordially greeted . The Witness family seemed to have called truce because of the death. I am sure things went back to normal afterwards.
BluesBrother
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What are the Society's rules when confronting a disfellowshipped person at a funeral service?
by RULES & REGULATIONS inwhat are the society's rules when confronting a disfellowshipped person at a funeral service?.
are there specific rules or watchtower articles that must be followed?.
i have been to three different wakes/funerals where a disfellowshipped person attended with different results.. 1. ten years ago my first cousin passed away.
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1984 movie, Similar to WT land.
by dropoffyourkeylee inwow, if you have the time, watch this movie of orwell's 1984. it was made in the '50s, so its a little hokey, but wow the similarities are scary.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-mj08hncica.
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BluesBrother
1984...... probably my favourite modern book , due to the way that I can relate it to my WT experiences. Once you know the "truth about the Truth " the similarities are readily apparent.
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Havent gone to the kingdom hall in ten years but may have to go back...
by Joliette inmade a big mistake of talking about being raised as a jehovah's witness to some old friends and family.
people have told me that i am still a jws even though i've never been baptized.
i'm in school for social services, dealing with student loan debt, and a lot of other debt.
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BluesBrother
Do you think that you will be able to go back ? If you know it is a scam, and all the negative things you said, what makes you think you can survive ?
When lockdown ends and they take you out in service , will you be able to tell people all the J W shpeil .
Actually there are family reasons that would benefit me to go back, but I know I could not do it
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No inetrest in Watchtower & Awake?
by Ardian inthe watchtower and awake have been listed as the most popular magazines.the figures are astonishing.
i am not sure whether it is based on reality or not.. source: https://tingtopten.com/2020/01/top-10-most-popular-magazines-in-the-world/.
i have seen the link on many social media networks.
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BluesBrother
At the moment I don’t think you can say. I do not have any recent printed issues to see the figures that used to be on the inside page. It is not online.
Back in 2010 they were claiming over 40 million distribution for each mag, but they have reduced the frequency and the content since then. They have actually dissuaded the dubs from using printed material .
who knows how many read them online? The ones placed are given away on the street when they are able to do so so it is not a fair comparison with a regular magazine.
I cannot see the figures claimed in that original website as being true these days , especially with Covid stopping the distribution
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The JWs don't like Chess
by mickbobcat ini can remember when i joined the chess class in middle school.
my mother brought out an older watchtower article about how chess is a game of war.
since i left the cult in 95 i have slowly lost any connection to the cult.
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BluesBrother
Not the case nowadays though. Just six years after the negative article was published , the Awake 1979 said this in an article on indoor games
"Contributing to backgammon’s popularity is the fact that it is easy to learn, yet is very difficult to master. And, of course, chess is another board game that has long provided many persons much pleasure."
No further comments were made. You would be hard pressed these days to find a dub that objected to a game of chess. ( I never could get the hang of it myself)
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I've been shot
by FatFreek 2005 inyes, the long-awaited vaccine entered my bloodstream yesterday at 5 pm.. as steve martin humorously remarked, "good news/bad news.
good news: i just got vaccinated!
bad news: i got it because i'm 75.
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BluesBrother
Well done Fat Freak.... I had mine, 1st dose, a week or so back.
It feels good to be immunized although I am still being careful .Best wishes , old son
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The governing body KNEW
by FedUpJW inso i received an email from one of the used-to-be jw friends that now pretty much ignore me.
it was haranguing me about "getting right with gee-ho'-vuh", and how imperative it was to "return to the organization".
it continued on with the worn out argument that "the faithful and discreet slave know what we must do in order to be safe and to live, as gee-ho'-vuh brightens the light to them.
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BluesBrother
True ....there have been many instances where the entertainment industry has done stories that strangely predict things that happened.
When I was young the Watchtower used to make a lot out of the fact that they predicted that the League Of Nations would rise again . I have since learned that at the time they said it, the thing was widely expected anyway
Crazy dubs who read too much into artwork are just silly people. Wiser heads would not say that. At least you can take the fact that they cared enough about you to write. We never hear a word from the congregation, and my wife was active up until lockdown.
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Letter from local Kingdom Hall
by jhine intoday l received a hand written letter from my local kingdom hall .
l say my local as the one nearest me , for those who don't know me l am not nor have ever been a jw .
as this letter was addressed " to the householder " l assume that everyone in the area ( tamworth , staffordshire ) has been sent one .
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BluesBrother
They seem to be pushing the letter writing ministry in England these days, at the publishers own expense. At first they feared the data protection junk mail laws might prohibit it, but they had a re think. To me it seems a most boring way to count time. It is all about keeping the dubs involved in thinking about ministry and not going cold in lockdown.
What to say in reply? ....put it how you like but I would avoid contentious issues that show you to be “apostate “. The rank and file dubs don’t know about them anyway. I would ask seemingly interested questions that would make the writer look into some areas of faith that are thinly supported......if you want to.....
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Thoughts on JW funerals
by Syme ini recently had the sad opportunity to attend 2 jw funerals.
the first was a few months ago and the second today.
the first was my grandfather's and the second of an old friend back from my jw days.
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BluesBrother
A lot depends on the speaker.. If he is one to go by the book he will stick to the printed outline and say little about the deceased. Others include more personal things .
At my time of life I have seen many old friends go, and their memorial services varied enormously.
Make sure you get the right elder to take it.
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You have to admit if there were to be a 2nd coming of the Christ, now would be the time!
by nowwhat? ini'm not talking about armageddon, but a chance for all mankind to "reset" and come together.
just sayin.
i know i'm going to get nailed, but that's ok. i still consider myself a christian..
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BluesBrother
I am not “ nailing “ anybody but I also contest the viewpoint that America is the be-all-and-everything to the world today. That is the kind of thinking that led the Watchtower astray.
Covid is bad . No argument about that but it does not compare to Spanish Flu or Ebola and we have had worse pandemics in history.
The American disorder is actually local to the North American State. The rest of the world looks on and shrugs while getting on with our own lives.
I too believe that Christ will return some day but I don’t know when , he did not say.