Thanks under74.
I left the JW's almost 10 year ago when I was 16. I was a "bad influence" on all the other young ones. I didn't actually do anything but got the blame for pretty much anything the others did as they were all elders children. I was actually glad to take the blame for a lot of it as it meant they would leave me alone. However my mother stayed faithful but luckily not fanatical like some. She left the JW's 2 months ago. Only my brother is still in. I finally feel that since my mum has left that I don't have to feel guilty anymore.