Hey thanks everyone, I really appreciate all your comments. It's a good thing to come to a site like this and get a little healing help from people you never meet. Your all a great bunch of people.....Oh and I am feeling better already, still hurts like hell but I am feeling better.
oldflame
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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oldflame
You know what hurts the most ? Is the fact that I allowed myself to fall for someone like I did. That's what I'm kicking myself in the ass for, I don't think now that it was so much as her going back to the abuser as much as I should of known better. That's the part that sucks the most.
Juni,
When people respond like the one you were speaking of, that just shows their lack of compassion for other people. They are more than likely a kind of people who do not get along with other people and usually do not have many friends. And that's ok I am over it....
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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oldflame
maybe there are things within yourself you need to resolve before you seek out love
Really ? Hum being a humble kind respectable considerate compassionate thoughful person and you think I need to resolve those qualities ? What a jerk !
If you are 45, and the scenerio you mention happens over and over, the best I can surmise is that you have a defective picker.
Excuse me ? No sorry the pecker not picker works just fine. Only an idiot would say something like that.
I am fine I just needed to talk about this just like everyone else needs to talk when something hurts you.
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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oldflame
Hey I got the problem resolved. Become a drunkin abuser then maybe I will get the love of my life back. What do you think ? think it will work ? Lets see where is that bottle of whiskey I hid ?
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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oldflame
Thanks everyone . Man I am just dying inside . I am sure most of us knows those feelings, you know the kind that makes your gut wrench . I think I'd rather be shot than have this kind of pain. I am so in love with this woman and I would give her the world.
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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oldflame
Luna2,
Hi , I have never hurt this bad in all my life, it's bringing me down to a very bad state of depression causing me to think very bad thoughts !
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Why does LOVE hurt so bad ?
by oldflame ini am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long.
i have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two.
but it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens.
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oldflame
I am a 45 year old man who has lived a single life for so long, for too long. I have dated several in the past few years andhave got serious a time or two. But it never fails when someone comes along that really trips your trigger, you fall so hard for someone who really fits your wants needs and desires in everyway a man could want and then it happens. She has just left an boozer who is abusive. So I try show her how not all men are like that and that there are men in the world who really do respect women and cherish every one of them and it seems your making head way and you begin to feel like finally someone in your life whom you can really enjoy a life with, and then what happens ? They go back to the looser abusive drunk ! Man this shit hurts like a hurt never before. I got a very deep feeling for this woman and she knows who I am and what I am. A genuine man who has values and a very deep passion when it comes to relationships.
I feel that if your a looser your the winner, it always goes that way and I don't understand why ? Maybe some of you woemn here on the board can explain to me why is this. Why does the perfect woman always fall for the loosers ? Why is it that a real ladies man never gets the gift of love ? That's all I want in life is too love someone for the rest of my life but it seems like a very long road that never ends.. Someone please help me to understand this before it is too late !
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NEED ADVICE ON FAKING A REINSTATEMENT
by Mary ina friend of mine who is df'd is seriously considering trying to get reinstated in order to have his family back in his life.
this is not an easy decision because he's fully aware that this isn't "the truth", but the pain of being excluded from normal family relations is really tearing him.
he has two choices: either move away from his family and try and start a new life, or bite the bullet, try and get reinstated and then do the fade.
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oldflame
If they really, truly believed that this is "the Truth", then I would think that they would feel shameful that they're encouraging someone to lie to Jehovah's Organization, in order to sooth their own conscience.
That is exactly what I have been saying about this all along. It is a fear that these people live in and not the true freedom in Christ.
Why allow a petty organization to dictate family relationships?
What do you think they are doing here ? These sorry ass bastards dictate everything you do and if you don't we will make your life miserable. Is this the actions of what the bible says about Christ ? Is this the way he acted ? I think Not ! -
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History Channel. The exodus
by agapa37 indid anyone watch it tonight?
i thought it was interesting.
there idea about the ark of the covenant was off from what the bibles says though.
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oldflame
I have it on right now it is just about over. I thought it was very well done and set the fact that the story of the Exodus is a real happening. Many findings including ancient writings from the Egyptians as well as the Jews collaborate.
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NEED ADVICE ON FAKING A REINSTATEMENT
by Mary ina friend of mine who is df'd is seriously considering trying to get reinstated in order to have his family back in his life.
this is not an easy decision because he's fully aware that this isn't "the truth", but the pain of being excluded from normal family relations is really tearing him.
he has two choices: either move away from his family and try and start a new life, or bite the bullet, try and get reinstated and then do the fade.
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oldflame
If he were my foolish friend, I'd smack him upside the head; big time.
JT, Thank You !
This is what I call a slamboozle ! The JW cult family tells him he has to get reinstated before we can talk to you . Well hell they knew that when they were disfellowshipped . Don't they see what is happening here ? The JW religion wins and all the work here was for nothing . There is a great deal of integrity lost here by doing this and someday this family who says who cares if you believe or not just get reinstated will hold this over him afterwards to start being a real JW or else ! No this is bullshit from the get go. I wouldn't give them the satisfaction knowing full well what it is and besides all that the Bible says to put God first in your life not your family, family is supposed to be second. I personally would not do this by any means but then I am not this person and they have the free right to decide what is best for themselves.