I had a similar experience awhile back...thought I'd test the society web site...sent a request in for a visit. Three weeks later a phone call from an elder in the local congregation .
A few days after , he and another elder visited...I did not mention that I had been disfellowshipped.
They were both decent fella's , until I decided a few weeks into a couple of discussions to confess all...suddenly the attitude changed and once again was treated like a leper...
So much for the prodigal son returning and his father running out to meet him.