Hey there OM. Long time no see :)
I let them come.
It was really awkward. They asked the usual questions, I evaded them as best as I could.
If you stay in the area, and don't move, it's probably going to be a long time hun. One of those things where it just takes time.
Damn, I didn't realize you are still fading!!! Been thinking about you much lately.
hugs to you