FayeDunaway's post is great and when I was a witness I had NO IDEA that most protestants felt that way.
When I found that out it shook me a lot. I've mentioned it to my wife but nothing get through her thought stopping process.
TNT, about your OP, I really don't even know how I feel these days. I could see myself identifying with Deism but I don't understand all its nuances. I am no longer afraid that God will kill me for my choices and I am willing to admit that I have no idea what will happen to me when I die. Does that make me nervous? Sometimes. When talking to a dub or even my wife I always identify with an earthly paradise to maintain common ground.