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  New Book - The Reluctant Prostate

  by Simon in

  1. social
  2. humour

  hey everyone, i'm writing a new book.. it's the entirely fictional story about a character called "roy devons", an obese clown who was kicked out of clown college because he couldn't stop touching himself.

  he launches his own youtube channel where he tells the world how wrong and unfunny clowns really are.

  the world already knows this, and never really had much todo with clowns anyway, although some other ex-clowns felt like they needed to be reminded regularly of their past lives.. he hits upon the idea of asking for donations to support efforts to convince ex-clowns to get their prostates checked.

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  Simon this may be your discussion board but behave 😃
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

  by Newly Enlightened in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  original reddit post (removed).

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  This post troubles me. For one I cannot stand Lloyd and his approach. But if a light was shone on my private life I'd be a hypocrite too. 🤦🏿
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  CO retirement severance?

  by road to nowhere in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  a friend says the wt gives a substantial sum to retiring cos. he says one bought land and built near him, a desirable rural area.

  i think it must have been saved green handshake money or inherited.. btw this man also thinks the gb are the smartest men alive..

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  We had a CO in the UK Roddy leave the religion when he kicked up a fuss about a pension...
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  You Just Can't Not Laugh

  by Simon in

  1. social
  2. humour

  so this kid adds trombone-effects to his mothers life and, well, if you haven't seen it you have to watch it.

  seems like she see's the funny side for some of them at least.. it's awesome and hilarious.

  kudos to them both.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhlfcezkvko.

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  Beautiful 🥰
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  Never expect anyone to solve a problem when their livelihood depends on that problem existing

  by Simon in

  1. social
  2. current

  imagine you were a leader of a "gender equality" group started as part of the 'metoo' movement?.

  now fast-forward and you're the one trying to discredit victims who have come forward with accusations.

  but not they are accusations against someone you work for.. it's a perfect example of how activists so often end up unwittingly (or quite intentionally) perpetuating the very problem they claim to be against.

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  Blimey.
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  Witness posts JW.borg link on post about a dead child 🤦🏾‍♂️ on LinkedIn!

  by usualusername1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the link to the jw post is here https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6755559934110269440?commenturn=urn%3ali%3acomment%3a%28activity%3a6755559934110269440%2c6756112912068186112%29.

  am mulling over how to reply.

  any suggestions?.

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  The link to the JW post is here https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6755559934110269440?commentUrn=urn%3Ali%3Acomment%3A%28activity%3A6755559934110269440%2C6756112912068186112%29

  Am mulling over how to reply. Any suggestions?
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  Assistance Received!--2020-August-S-147-E Announcements And Reminders! (as of 2020-08-02)

  by Atlantis in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  someone has stepped forward to assist us.

  that sure didn't take very long!.

  2020-august-s-147-e announcements and reminders, in english and in german.. .

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  Great news...
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  2020-06-26--Announcement and Outlines for July and August!

  by Atlantis in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  announcement:.

  the following outlines should be presented in the christian life and ministry meeting during the dates specified below.

  please assign a qualified elder to apply the material locally.

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  Can I have a copy please Atlantis?
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  Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

  by usualusername1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the short version what you experience before your 18th birthday has a direct impact on your mental and physical health.. tell me more dr felitti created a test of experiences/traumas before your 18th birthday.

  over 17,000 people took part and over 70 follow up studies have verified the findings.

  in essence the higher your aces score the more risk you have mentally and physically.

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  The Short Version
  What you experience before your 18th birthday has a direct impact on your mental and physical health.

  Tell me more
  Dr Felitti created a test of experiences/traumas before your 18th birthday. Over 17,000 people took part and over 70 follow up studies have verified the findings. In essence the higher your ACEs score the more risk you have mentally and physically. You can take the test here https://acestoohigh.com/got-your-ace-score/

  Give me even more
  Dr Felitti worked for a Private health firm on helping patients with obesity. One patient was morbidly obese (circa 120kgs) and after support dropped to circa 50kgs. Then a few months later she was heavier then when morbidly obese. He asked his patient what happened. When she had lost her weight someone at worked flirted with her and it freaked her out. In a panic she became overweight again. After more interviews he found out that she has been sexually abused by her father. Her obesity appeared to have nothing to do with food. He then identified other sources of trauma and came up with a list of 10.
  
  The test can be completed in the link above but is in full below:

  Prior to your 18th birthday:

  1. Did a parent or other adult in the household often or very often… Swear at you, insult you, put you down, or humiliate you? or Act in a way that made you afraid that you might be physically hurt?

  2. Did a parent or other adult in the household often or very often… Push, grab, slap, or throw something at you? or Ever hit you so hard that you had marks or were injured?

  3. Did an adult or person at least 5 years older than you ever… Touch or fondle you or have you touch their body in a sexual way? or Attempt or actually have oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse with you?

  4. Did you often or very often feel that … No one in your family loved you or thought you were important or special? or Your family didn’t look out for each other, feel close to each other, or support each other?

  5. Did you often or very often feel that … You didn’t have enough to eat, had to wear dirty clothes, and had no one to protect you? or Your parents were too drunk or high to take care of you or take you to the doctor if you needed it?

  6. Were your parents ever separated or divorced?

  7. Was your mother or stepmother:
  Often or very often pushed, grabbed, slapped, or had something thrown at her? or Sometimes, often, or very often kicked, bitten, hit with a fist, or hit with something hard? or Ever repeatedly hit over at least a few minutes or threatened with a gun or knife?

  8. Did you live with anyone who was a problem drinker or alcoholic, or who used street drugs?

  9. Was a household member depressed or mentally ill, or did a household member attempt suicide?

  10. Did a household member go to prison?
  

  Now add up your “Yes” answers: _ This is your ACE Score

  
  Who was tested?
  Over 17,000 patients agreed to the test. 75% were white and 75% had degrees. All were middle class.

  Even though 10 sources of trauma were identified many other factors could count:

  · Born in a cult

  · Poverty

  · Racism

  · Bullying

  What do the scores mean?
  
  The following are average ACE scores
  Score 0 36%
  Score 1 26%
  Score 2 16%
  Score 3 9.5%
  Score 4+ 12.5%
  
  If your score is 4 or more:

  • 66% chance of chronic depression for a woman and 35% for men
  • Increased chance of taking anti-depressants
  • Score of 6 compared to zero increase suicide attempts by 5000%
  • Smoking, alcoholism, obesity, unwanted pregnancies, heart disease, liver disease, cancer and emphysema all increase drastically with a score of four or more.
  • Score of 6 or more reduces your life by 20 years

  My score is 8 and I have PTSD. I am getting weekly therapy from a trauma counsellor, reading “The Body Keeps The Score” and doing yoga to get better.
  
  Take care
  
  Paul
  
  
  
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  Article on front page of BBC website

  by usualusername1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-51006771.

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  https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-51006771