have you ever noticed that around here more is said when people are silent than when they are talking sometimes.
not anything in particular, i just noticed that when people get silent, there usually is a reason.
hard times, drama, can't comment...etc.
Well cool, if you can tell what I'm thinking when I don't say anything, what do I need to post at all for?
Smart butt....
Extremist, Don't you think? It was a clue to keep a heads up for fellow posters that they may be going through things. A reminder of the phases we go through on here and maybe something to ponder on. A bit of hope that there is a recovery process and a bit of we have all been there so keep on keeping on! That is all.
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have you ever noticed that around here more is said when people are silent than when they are talking sometimes.
not anything in particular, i just noticed that when people get silent, there usually is a reason.
hard times, drama, can't comment...etc.
Have you ever noticed that around here MORE is said when people are silent than when they are talking sometimes.If you are refering to me not congratulating you and sexy, umm, I mean 6of9...well, I was going to bump it back to the top later after I got over my jealously.
lisa.
not yet, still not over it.
Ah hon, No I should have expanded and not kept everyone in suspense. I was referring to people not talking. Lets take for instance when we have a poster who is posting hot and heavy...Then all the sudden stops. Why? Are they having a hard time of it? Are they moving on? Have they found a life outside the board.
Sometimes feelings are hurt. Sometimes I notice people start threads asking, "who do we miss?" And you might note some people always take care to mention someone that has been lost to us for a long time. Some people really don't say much but when they do it seems to be a whole bunch. You know, just the right touch of love.
And some by the silence are telling us a whole mess. Maybe by the last post they put up being not in the usual chipper way and now all the sudden they don't post.
Or if they usually flirt with the whole damn world and all of the sudden they turn into St. Mary and never post. Maybe they got embarrassed or have something going on? You know. Silence says a lot. I guess I have taken time to observe and I have noticed a lot of old favorites have drifted into spuratic and few post like they have a life outside the board. Then there is that early on lurker silence. Then that silence you get when you had a good drink or ten and PM'ed the whole damn world and told everyone how sexy they were and should not have. Then the silence when you revealed all. Then the silence when you don't know what to say.
Possibly the silence because you think you are over the board. And somewhere in there the silence because you realize you can come back anytime you want and contribute...and there is life outside the board...and in the board also! That it is not all about you or how good or sexy you are or what you did or did not do, how much you hate or love...and possibly how to help others.
Then the silence that comes from knowing you learned the most by experiencing it all yourself. The love, joy, hope, and hurt, everything deception and the dynamics of the board yourself. So each should take their turn. So you are silent as you take your turn learning at silence and observing and learning..
That is what I meant.
Ah and Lisa, I am sure there are a few people that will recover and get on board in a bit. (No pun intended) They will just have to pick up with bachelor number two. There are still a lot of good men left on JWD. I just happened to take the one I love the absolute best. Let the flirting resume (starting with bachelor number two) and may you catch the bouquet!
Edited to add: Six says your married so duck if the bouquet comes at you. Oh and he blushed!
have you ever noticed that around here more is said when people are silent than when they are talking sometimes.
not anything in particular, i just noticed that when people get silent, there usually is a reason.
hard times, drama, can't comment...etc.
Have you ever noticed that around here MORE is said when people are silent than when they are talking sometimes.
Just saying.
Not anything in particular, I just noticed that when people get silent, there usually is a reason. Hard times, drama, can't comment...etc. The dynamics of the board facinate me sometimes.
i saw this the other day.
the washington post apparently has a yearly contest where readers are asked to supply alternate meanings for various words -- and the winners were .
1. coffee (n.), a person who is coughed upon.
What a happy day! Great stuff!!
why does the drug companies name their erectile dysfunction drugs after black women - levitra, cialis,and viagra?.
(i have a crazy answer, but i didn't think that i'll put it down!
).
LMAO!! I hear you MS D! I will HAVE to tell my class at work that one......You crack me up! I bet
i was having lunch last week with my mom and she dropped the a-word on me.
my mom started off the lunch speaking about what a disappointment i was to her that my wife and i had put our little girl into a christian private school.
i posted on an earlier thread that my wife and i now have a 6 year old beautiful little girl that we're adopting.
Rising Eagle. ~
You want to know the weird part? I really expected her to cease contact with me after that but she's been to the house twice and my phone rings numerous times a day from her.
It sounds like you got through to her a bit. It is good you spoke your mind. You know sometimes parents just can't help themselves they just HAVE to say that stupid stuff...especially if they are JW's.
i have been battling an incurable illness and will be able to post less and less.
i will post my email, and any help you cna asend my way will be appreciated.
there is treatment but no cure and no cancer yet.
The MRI proved negative. I am making slow improvement and found an IRL support group. I'm still tired at night but I'm still able to work. I'm glad to see the new and improved WT Comments. I hope Blondie isn't forgotten.
Love, Blondie
Good Morning Ms Blondie.
Forget you?
No Way! Now That I have met you I have a face to put with your name and all the treasures you post. I got ya! May you have a most beautiful day. Smootches and lots of smootches!
Sparkplug!
now guess when.. .
ok, the who is easy.
the when is not nailed down just yet.
Say, Xena, do you know when in December you are thinking of coming?
now guess when.. .
ok, the who is easy.
the when is not nailed down just yet.
You all are great. Let me tell you I just got in from running kids everywhere and I cannot even begin to think about how to respond. 4 pages is really nice after feeling a bit bittersweet knowing my JW family won't be coming.
I must admit put two A. D. D. people in the same room and tell them to plan...lol You should see how long it has taken us just to post this. I am just happy and in love. That is about as far as I can figure.
now guess when.. .
ok, the who is easy.
the when is not nailed down just yet.
Me and my Dutchess are getting hitched next year, Ross seems to be a trend setter!
Now that is a big happy trend! Best wishes to you there!!
and Purps....thanks to you! Now stop that crying. Your makeup will run. (Yeah, I have been wondering how are we going to get photos..lol).
