I did not think I would be the "worrying" over my kids type of mother before I had kids.
I would always say "yeah, sure, I'd let them do just about anything" prior to having children.
This reminds me (again) of a comic strip from a paper years ago about a young lady giving advice to a mother stating that they would do this or that...the mother responded "the best parenting comes BEFORE having children"....LOL... I so understand it now.