My personal opinion will ofcourse be different then yours, but I have found it hard to talk to my freinds on simple matters like this. the way I understand it (and I am most likely wrong) everyone has a mosaic of past experience and memories as they perceve them. If the topic or subject doesnt fit in the puzzle, most are not willing to change there mosaic in order to fit this new information. I wonder how much we too are subject to this problem.
P.S. : I can't spell.