apostates who would do anything to ruin Jehovas reputation, that they were full of lies, twisted and bitter...instead of seeing bitter twisted people just out to ruin Jehovas name, i found people with some pretty tough experiences, people with all sorts of backgrounds and tales to tell. Normal, ordinary people. many of whom just have a bad, or many bad experiences of being involved with jws.
No offense taken, holly! :) I am almost proud to be the subject of their name-calling--it shows I am a reasonable, intelligent, thoughtful person.
High control groups have various techniques to reduce the amount of independent thinking and outside contact their members have. The JWs use the denigration of non-JWs, especially ex-JWs, as a main method. Applying a negative label (apostate) is especially effective in getting their members not to listen to them.
I always say: If "it's the truth", then it will surely stand up to scrutiny and objective evaluation. There should be no fear of re-examining their practices and beliefs.