jgnat,that's what hurts the most, shes reacting the wrong way for the baby. Your saying this (her decision) IS NOT JW related? ... She says she loves me, yet cannot even talk to me in person...I'm sadly getting the hint, and it really hurts. This all has been an immense hell for me. I hate seeing her like this. ALSO, thanks to everyone who's given me feeedback on this matter/s... nobody has validated the reasons though, where does it say in the JW beliefs to EXCLUDE and ALIENATE? I am having trouble understanding.
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why do JW try to alienate reality
by paradox213 inwhat i mean by this is how can they believe a baby shouldn't have both parents?
i truly believe both mother and father should be united together for their baby.
i posted a question regarding marrying outside the jw earlier... please help me understand this atrocity.
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why do JW try to alienate reality
by paradox213 inwhat i mean by this is how can they believe a baby shouldn't have both parents?
i truly believe both mother and father should be united together for their baby.
i posted a question regarding marrying outside the jw earlier... please help me understand this atrocity.
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DY, what do you mean wrong information? Have you read my posts?
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why do JW try to alienate reality
by paradox213 inwhat i mean by this is how can they believe a baby shouldn't have both parents?
i truly believe both mother and father should be united together for their baby.
i posted a question regarding marrying outside the jw earlier... please help me understand this atrocity.
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What I mean by this is how can they believe a baby shouldn't have both parents? I truly believe both mother and father should be united together for their baby. I posted a question regarding marrying outside the JW earlier... Please help me understand this atrocity.
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Beebee, baby is due may 29. my ex gf is 21. Why would ANY relgios group want the father of the baby to be avoided?! This is my problem, she's actually NOT seeing what is happening. She "currently" speaks as though I can and will be able to see our son when I want to. Thanks again...
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undercover, She wasn't we were never married. she/we got pregnant= she bailed out, left me. I want/ed to marry her and be there for her and the lil boy. She doesn't care about anything regarding the lil dude's future.
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Non Jw Dating a JW
by propel ini'm a non jw currently seeing a jw.
i am not totaly clear about the rules about jw's in dating.
could someone explain this to me and does it vary from family to family at all?
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SK, You and I have a lot in common! Except I'm a guy. She was the sweetest girl, her JW beliefs never were an issue until she got pregnant. There are some days where my situation looks good...but it's mostly always bad. She never tries to work things out, always telling me to wait. I am so depressed about the whole thing. I cannot believe someone would be this cruel to another..blindly cruel. It's a lot like she stuck a knife in my back/hit a vital organ and is slowly pulling the knife out,instead of getting me medical attention...I know, weird analogy. I am constantly worried about my whole situation..This has always been one of worst fears. Loving someone who loves you too, then gets pregnant and bails on you... The peices no longer fit...
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beebee, "As a mother, it makes sense to protect your children, and for a JW mom, that includes protecting their soul and their eternity. Hence her need to get back into the fold, even if it means excluding you, makes sense if you consider this belief. " How can she be protecting her our kid? She is vastly depriving him of his right to have a father. Excluding me is the most selfish thing. "She may well still love you, but her overriding need to protect her baby is winning." If you love someone you would never go out of your way to NOT work things out. "At least that is what I suspect may be going on. Perhaps you can ask her." She can't speak to me in erson alone w/out chaperone She doesn't want to work this out, I'm judging by her actions..not her words. Thanks for your input
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how? she is doing everything in her power to avoid me. She says she can't even interact (talk) in person with me, without a chaperone. AND She mentioned that she's trying to "straighten her life" ...gee I didn'y kjnow I was the devil....
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Non Jw Dating a JW
by propel ini'm a non jw currently seeing a jw.
i am not totaly clear about the rules about jw's in dating.
could someone explain this to me and does it vary from family to family at all?
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He had a child with her too?
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What I meant by that is- she is currently pregnant, one day she will speak of hope -this will work...the next she will speak of negativity. I've heard that pregnant women can be very moody... I am slowly realizing I don't mean anything to her anymore. Before the pregnancy happened, we never fought, we were always happy. It was the best time of our/my life. Every now and then I can see the sweet girl I fell in love with. but the longer I'm away the worse it gets. I believe her actions/lack of action, are a precursor to alienation.