Hi muse,
Welcome.
I am truly sorry to hear your sad news.
You story is very similar to mine. Raized in the 'Truth', driffed in my late teens/early twenties but managed to still have a great relationship with my parents. My father an elder.
He died a few years ago, and I was in the room when the surgen told him that it was too late for him to do anything, and the ONLY option remaining was a blood transfusion. He refused.
During his demise a death the witness at their congregation were very supportive to both my father and mother. And there was no ''Hospital Liaison Committee'.
I hope this helps a little.
Stay in touch with this board, ther are some great people here, and it has helped me very much.
steve.