A vanilla latte or a chai tea.....unless i'm home then it has to be my coffee fresh ground a suicide blend half decaf half regular......YUM.... I live on coffee.
Heather
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What is your Favorite coffee, mocha, latte, cap, etc?
by AK - Jeff ini am a rather old fogey on the matter - just black and hot.
but i like the occasional mocha.. what use of this universal bean is your favorite?
how many do you drink a week?
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Am I done having children?
by whyamihere ini have a question to the parents on the board:.
how did you know your last child was your last?
did your family feel complete?.
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Heather
Afte i gave birth to my third BOY. I knew i was done. My hubby went and got fixed I have an 8yr old a 3yr old and a 2yr old.....the 2 little ones keep the house upside down and side ways. I knew that three was what i could handle. Although my husband and I said that when they are older and if I still want a girl that we would look into adopting......and thats if we are still doing well financially......We really miss having our own time and getting to go on our dates.....So, we'll see. I'm so glad that my 2 yr old is finally sleeping through the night.....i always thought it was interesting when one baby might be very calm and sleep through the night at a week old and the other can have collick and want to nurse every friken 30 mins......You never know.....But i do miss them being so little and tiny.......but i'm so glad i'm not having anymore
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UPDATE!: THEY ALL ADMITTED EGGING US -Elders now know, heads are rolling!!
by Lady Liberty inoh.... how the saga goes on!!
i swear we could write a novel about our life exiting the watchtower!!
ok..many of you read what happened..our house was egged and so was my sisters car that was parked here, and "frosty" was attacked!!
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Heather
When I was 17 i was out with a group of JW friends.......we were teenagers and tipped over a port-a-potty. One of the guys I was with got a consience and told the elders on the rest of the group.....we were all reproved, publicly, but we were told not to apologise to the company that owned the port-a-potty....looking back now I know i did a stupid teenage prank....BUT I was a teenager not in my late 30's......and if some of us had gone to the company that owned the port-a-potty or to the home owner who's property it was on.......can you imagine what would have happened if they discovered we were "gods people"......newspaper articles....we were under age so probably public service... Anyway, I was thinking and I believe part of the reason these guys acted like teenagers is cause as JW's (at least me) We have no childhood...........so we tend to do childish things if we haven't had a time in our life to do crazy stuff and get over that phaze.........I personally think that they were not sincerly sorry.....they behaved like kids and they are apologising like kids (its the i'm sorry if i have to be). Press charges or get a offical statment from the police and go to the papers. They need some real punishment......and if they are this childish you can be sure something stupid like this will happen again...maybe not to you but to another ex-JW.
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What do you do.......
by Heather inwhen your jw family member tells you it would have been so much better if you had just faded instead of daing yourself.
that to them daing yourself is much worse then dfing yourself.
if only you had hung in there and faded they would treat you as family but now it tears at them that they can't talk to you.
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Heather
The thing is for a while i tried to fade.....she wouldn't let me. She would call up the local elders and tell them I needed sheparding. I finally moved out of that area to where I live now and when I moved she called the elders up here and they actually tracted me down at the laundry mat. I went to some meetings and they were in the middle of counceling me on past actions that I had to repent on. They were going to reprove me and I had thought they would DF me. anyway I was tired of dragging my son to meetings and spanking him and talking to the elders about my premarital sex and asking for forgivness.....I think thats mostly why i DA myself in the fiirst place. I learned a whole lot more after I left and felt free to look up stuff and research questions I have had for a long time. I have asked her about different things.....but she avoids answering them than says she doesn't remember me asking her stuff in the first place. She has a big denile problem. I have told her I want a relationship with her and i prefer not to talk about religion but she is so consumed with it all its not possible. She says I need to be a JW.....its not good enough that I might believe some of the things.....jehovah made a name for his people....and if I don't have that name i will die. My family will die....i'm killing my kids. She tries using the fact that my dad and brother have died to guilt me into coming back cause "don't you want to see them in the new system". So I'm kinda lost maybe I will figure it out but part of me just wants to scream.....Do some research don't just believe what someone tells you. Anyway.......I know i'm kinda ranting but I enjoy reading alot of posts here and getting insight on other lifes and I'm just throwing in my own experiance. : )
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What do you do.......
by Heather inwhen your jw family member tells you it would have been so much better if you had just faded instead of daing yourself.
that to them daing yourself is much worse then dfing yourself.
if only you had hung in there and faded they would treat you as family but now it tears at them that they can't talk to you.
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Heather
When your JW family member tells you it would have been so much better if you had just faded instead of DAing yourself. That to them DAing yourself is much worse then DFing yourself. If only you had hung in there and faded they would treat you as family but now it tears at them that they can't talk to you. Then you start thinking about how maybe you should have let the elders reprove you before instead of getting tired of all the BS and writing them that DA letter. Well i'm glad to be out but I'm so tired of my mom repeating this to me "you should have faded". I know theres got to be some other ones here that have gone throught this similar experiance. If you have any advice i will gladly accept. Do I just tell her how I NEVER want to go back again or just lie and play along and hope in 20 years she will speak to me like a normal family member.
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What makes you HAPPY about life when it all seems so FUTILE?
by hamsterbait injust saw the film "perfume".
that poor baby.
aaaahhhhh.
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Heather
Knowing my daughter is growing up in a way that allows her to grow and accept things as they are - rather than being brainwashed as we were - makes me happy.
For me its knowing my boys will grow in this way. To be able to learn and grow. Not just to be told how to think and to just accept it. My oldest enjoys learning and know that there are things that he can decide for himself.
I think we all have days where we ponder on the negitive too much and it gets us down....but over all we have lots to be happy for :)
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The 613 Laws of JW's
by avidbiblereader inthe witnesses always say they are free in christ, i beg to differ, i don't know how many stupid unscriptural laws they have but lets start a thread on how many dumb witness laws you know and have heard of that make no sense or completely unbelievable, it is like they have a second talmud.
cant have walt disney movies or stuffed animals as this is magical.
cant have beards.
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Heather
In my hall we wern't aloud to wear dresses or skirts that went below our ankles (it was a fad at the time) and we were supposed to wear panty hose at all times. Short skirts could not be above the knees and that includes the slits.....we had a big talk once about how sisters should imagine how short there skirt would be if it was to be cut off at the top part of the slit.......if that was above the knee the slit was to be sewn shut down to the proper point. Thong panties were not aloud (inmodest). You could not wear you birth stone. We were contsantly counceled on how to not be materialistic but many elders wives had 100 dollar purses and book bags and drove 2 door jaguars and had large diamond rings.....oh yeah and they didn't hang out with other jw's that wern't as well off.
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Percentage of men who don't wash hands after pooing
by *jeremiah* ini just left my work desk to go to the rest room.
this guy came out of the stall and clearly just finished his business and didn't wash his hands.
i see this a lot.
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Heather
My husband and I were at walmart trading in some lego xmas presents and when we were standing in line there were two women with kids in front of us. I got so sick...one of the little boys was sitting in the cart and was chewing and sucking on the belt strap....you know the strap to tie the child in. The mom just looked at him then went back to talking to her friend. Both my husband and I looked at this boy.,...had to be around 3 and said "eww, isn't that yucky". He just smiled and chewed away.......SOOOOOO GROSSS........and one day she'll wonder how he got Hepititis B...
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Your favorite "bumper stickers"
by new boy ini have two.
"please god protect me from your people".
"if you love something let go.......if it doesn't come back, hunt in down and kill it" .
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Heather
EVERBODY WANTS WHIRRLED PEAS
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New baptism questions?
by Heather ini heard in that the baptism questions were changed a number of years ago....i can't remember what they are.
can anyone direct me to a link or just remind me please?
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Heather
I heard in that the baptism questions were changed a number of years ago....I can't remember what they are. Can anyone direct me to a link or just remind me please?