I wouldn't give them the benefit of my presence
This would show them that you are wrong not them.
I would never allow them to have the opportunity to look down on me, If it was me in this situation, I would go with my chin up, and smile. Never let them see you sweat. That is the best way to show them that you are an individual with self love and respect that you will not be oppressed by the society and cong.
Quote: He who angers you, controls you.
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