The first thing my hubby and I did was get tattoos. But we have always felt completely free to defile eachother in the bedroom-------I have never understood how some JWs were bullied into confessing their private business. What a load of crap! I didn't know one young JW couple who didn't have oral sex before marriage. Wouldn't that freak out the fossilized members of the GB? Especially since some only believe in the missionary position.
The biggest thing though that I had always considered the ultimate in seperating myself from the org was registering to vote.
Curlygirl