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  Does anyone know a good exit counselor in the Chicago area?

  by Check_Your_Premises in

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  does anyone have any experience using exit counselors?

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Thanks for the blessing. Any other info or background on the guy? What is your experience with him?
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  Does anyone know a good exit counselor in the Chicago area?

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  does anyone have any experience using exit counselors?

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Does anybody know a exit counselor?!

  Is anybody reading this?

  Echo - Echo -Echo
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  New UBM (UnBelieving Mate) tip of the day: Build Trust With Cult Idenity

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  hey all.. any who have read my posts know that i am using steven hassan's, releasing the bonds to help me free my wife from the borg.

  one of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity.

  i have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.. i came up with a new angle.

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  Do you have any good resource sites for INC or other similar groups? I really need to track down some former non-jw cult members.
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  New UBM (UnBelieving Mate) tip of the day: Build Trust With Cult Idenity

  by Check_Your_Premises in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hey all.. any who have read my posts know that i am using steven hassan's, releasing the bonds to help me free my wife from the borg.

  one of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity.

  i have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.. i came up with a new angle.

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  Check_Your_Premises

  You talked to Steve? Really. The initial phone call is like 100. What other services does he offer? How much for the full intervention?
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  Does anyone know a good exit counselor in the Chicago area?

  by Check_Your_Premises in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  does anyone have any experience using exit counselors?

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Does anyone have any experience using exit counselors?
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  New UBM (UnBelieving Mate) tip of the day: Build Trust With Cult Idenity

  by Check_Your_Premises in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hey all.. any who have read my posts know that i am using steven hassan's, releasing the bonds to help me free my wife from the borg.

  one of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity.

  i have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.. i came up with a new angle.

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Have you contacted an exit counselor?
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  New UBM (UnBelieving Mate) tip of the day: Build Trust With Cult Idenity

  by Check_Your_Premises in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hey all.. any who have read my posts know that i am using steven hassan's, releasing the bonds to help me free my wife from the borg.

  one of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity.

  i have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.. i came up with a new angle.

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Well you probably want to back off on criticizing the wt. What about bringing up other groups that use mind control. There are a lot of religions that use the exact same arguments, claims and Bible verses. theholdemans.com has a great write up on "One True" religions.

  There are others as well. Iglesian Ni Cristo has some remarkeable similarities.

  Keep in mind, when I say similarities, I don't mean teachings necessarily. They are not cults because of what they teach, it is because of how they behave.
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  New UBM (UnBelieving Mate) tip of the day: Build Trust With Cult Idenity

  by Check_Your_Premises in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hey all.. any who have read my posts know that i am using steven hassan's, releasing the bonds to help me free my wife from the borg.

  one of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity.

  i have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.. i came up with a new angle.

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Sounds like the wife and I will be renting the big kahuna some time soon.
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  New UBM (UnBelieving Mate) tip of the day: Build Trust With Cult Idenity

  by Check_Your_Premises in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hey all.. any who have read my posts know that i am using steven hassan's, releasing the bonds to help me free my wife from the borg.

  one of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity.

  i have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.. i came up with a new angle.

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Hey all.

  Any who have read my posts know that I am using Steven Hassan's, Releasing The Bonds to help me free my wife from the borg. One of the most important steps for a loved one of a cult member is to build trust with their loved ones cult identity. I have found it difficult at times to keep bringing up the org to my wife all the time.

  I came up with a new angle.

  As we all know, turning in service hours is a big deal with dubs. My wife told me that she has used time talking with me as service time. I saw this as a great angle for talking at length about the org with out arousing suspiscion, and simultaneously building up additional trust by pointing out that the time can be used for her service report.

  Try it out if you like it.
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  Making contact with family

  by Crumpet in

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  some of you may know that my parents and whole family do not have any contact with me, apart from my dad who has provided his mobile number for "family business/emergencies".

  i never try to contact them anymore after a negative experience after being beaten up trying to break up a streetfight last november when i called my dad and he hung up as soon as he realised it was me crying on the other end.. .

  anyway - i decided that just because they want to forget about me i don't have to be the same anymore and i wanted them to know how happy i was.

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  Check_Your_Premises

  Hey Nina.

  I guess the best thing I can tell you about your family is to not take their shunning personally. Their authentic personalities love and miss you I am sure. Unfortunately they are being manipulated and controlled to behave and think a certain way.

  It is what I do with my wife. I try not to take it personally. It is awfully hard.

  Have you ever given any thought to trying to help some of them leave?