The result of this is as follows.
Apr 15, 2006 6:30 PM
Subject:Email to Serena
Body:Serena,
You know, I tried my hardest to be as peaceful as possible, but you didn't even try, and you are the one supposed to be setting the example ...
I am not ridiculous, you shouldn't even be joking about drinking, if you don't do it, it isn't very Christian like, And if you think there is nothing wrong w/having an actor on your page, well then what do you think other witnesses would think? To have him on your page, obviously means you like him in some way, that you think he's cool or whatever, but as a witness you are not supposed to be a "part of the world", so there is why Craig said that...You surely don't sound like you want me to come back at all... and if anything you really have turned Craig off to being interested. Also what you said about everyone puts jokes or untrue stuff on myspace, well not me, I am for real, open, & honest, & you should be too if you know that others know you are a JW & they see your page...I never was spying on your page, I have a life believe me.
& about you telling me I turned Jehovah down, that is so judgemental of you. Who are you to judge? You have no idea what I teach my children, you don't live here.
It was all good and fine when you came to stay w/me, how soon we forget...& you begged me to attend your baptism. Remember Craig took me.You said you'd never stop talking to me, no matter what...that was a lie!
I didn't turn my back on anyone, in fact JW's turned their back on me if you want to look at it that way, I went to them w/a full confession and begged for help, and appealed their decision, but to no avail.
Whatever happened is between me & Jehovah & you have no authority whatsoever to say that I turned my back on him...you can not read my heart. How could you possibly say that I turned my family down? It is the other way around.
I've always tried to give you good advice as older sister, I guess now is the time to say goodbye, you said don't talk to you, even though I personally never did anything to you, I wrote you an email back in response to the initial email Craig sent that I initially knew nothing about...and you don't talk to me anyways so...Anyways, you go on w/your life...Associate w/who you want to, and justify your doings, at least when I was in the religion I wasn't a hypocrite.
Goodbye.
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From: Cambo
Date: Apr 14, 2006 2:43 PM
well this is the last email ...and i dont want to be having a conversation with either of you.
that is not a matter of submission....just let him know he is not welcome here at all!
and how ridiculous can the two of you be? first of all the guy in the background is Clive Owen..an actor, just because i have a pic of him does NOT mean i have a "lust" for him....that is the stupidest thing i have ever heard in my life...come on, get a life craig.
as for the drinking....once AGAIN....it was a joke......i dont even drink screwdrivers for real! if u guys think u can spy on people by looking at their profiles.....u need to seriously get a life............use ur time more wisely ok....and dont go and make accusations off of mere comments on a myspace profile.....that is jokes....and everyone knows a lot of stuff on myspace is not for real...especially when everyone can see ur profile.
also ur very contradicting......i told you I DO NOT drink with that guy samedy........i only drink with witnesses or family.....and that is like one beer in a setting.......like once or twice a month...........
and to tell u the truth..........i consider u WORSE than a worldly person because you know better.
and here you think that just because you dont "claim" to be a JW that ur ok? Let me remind you....when you got baptized....u dedicated your life to JEHOVAH , NOT to an organization of JW's. so just because ur not a jw anymore......excuses you in NO WAY from your obligations to JEHOVAH. and if you somehow think that your lifestyle is acceptable to jehovah then you got a long way to go...because that dont fly in his book...
that excuse may work for Craig, but it certainly doesnt work for you!
u may not think u turned ur family down, but u did! and in the worst way possible..u also turned Jehovah down...and are now teaching ur children a bunch of lies...
dont talk to me again
Serena
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From: myperogotive
Date: Apr 8, 2006 7:38 PM
Serena,
Before you read any of this, please keep in mind I am not trying to pick on you or judge you or start a fight...Mostly I am writing back what Craig was trying to tell you, but the words didn't come out right...
First of all, I can't keep Craig in check, he is his own person, & how 'submissive' would that be?
Second, I checked w/him & the guy he was referring to in your profile is the guy on your background, you know the pic u have on your background of the "Mel Gibson, look alike" w/the green eyes. ..He was saying why do you have a pic like that when you are not supposed to be having feelings for anyone but a husband...
As for the drinking, he was referring to a comment you made to someone named Chelsea on Nov. 25 at 8:54pm: "I am drinking a screwdriver...but i think i put too much vodka in it lol" It had nothing to do w/Samedy at all, but by the way, I did see the comment you sent him & no it had nothing to do w/his asking you out for "drinks 2 or 3 or 4" why would he ask you out for drinks if he doesn't drink? And if he is a co-worker, & not a JW, then should you be associating w/him?
I am not here to pick a fight, or to point out to you what you are doing wrong, but it seems to me that, if you could hang w/these people & drink & so forth, then why can't you say hi to your sis? Also, I don't understand why you would say you want me to have nothing to do w/your life & to stay out...& the comment you made about me & craig doing plenty of things wrong, well we aren't the ones claiming to be JW's either...All I know is that I would never abandon family, no matter what unless maybe you murdered someone...I love you, you are my sister and if you called me for help on anything at any time, I'd do my best to listen to you or help you out...I would not turn you down.
Dita
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From:Serena
Date: Apr 3, 2006 4:53 PM
Dita,
You need to keep ur guy Craig in check. I dont want him sending me messages like this or i will have to start blocking people like him.
I am not gonna waste my time telling him that these accusations are totally false...and if he had any idea who that guy was on my profile and how he actually does NOT even drink alcohol....Craig would feel pretty stupid about saying such a thing...he needs to get his facts straight before he blabs his mouth like that....
I am also not gonna go and preach to u or craig on how many things you are doing wrong in your life.....so stay out of mine ALSO.
Also...craig claims he doesnt visit apostate sites..well how come you tell mom that he visits them all the time...and in the below message he must of got his info from some bizarre site..."Borg's writings".
I have only been drunk once in my life when i was 19...and that is it.........so i am not a drunkard or have any lust whatsoever for worldy men. the males on my profiles are either family, relatives.....or design coworkers....so tell him to bug off.
i dont want either of you in my life.....and i KNOW you know why...even though CRAIG doesnt seem to understand why...cuz he was never a JW and does not know how the disfellowshipping process works.
What I do is my business....and what YOU do is your business.........so tell CRAIG to stay OUT of my business.
THANKS very much. hope the girls are doing fine.
Serena