now another i had been dating this guy for bout 2 years. after one lie after another i siad enough is enough and called it quits... not so mush lies but situations that he was hiding from me ... long story short. were friends but he wants to get back with me but the deseption still lingures and so does his Hiding things from me and or hes contiune putting others first or getting walked all over by others and if im around its being done to me. like yeasterday I was cleaning his house and he was outside with his friends drinking.... granted ( IM THE MAID) but if hes all wanting to get with me dont you think hed been there with me.. then his mom was braging how his brothers new g/f cleanes up his place and this and that and how good she is about keeping his louser friends away. i pull up to the driveway cuz we were soppose to watch movies and i see this woman coming out of his house his mom walkd to the door and when i walked and knock at the door no one answers till im already walking away and getting into my car. suxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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by Cupcake in.
hi everyone im new hear is every one here a jehovah's witness or former jehovah's witness.
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thank you franklin how are you? how is everyone doing in here? its preety hot here in cali
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Help me handle this louser
by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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i work with the louser hes im my face almost evry day.
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Help me handle this louser
by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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actually NO turns out hes a x con just wanting attention saw me and said it was love at first sight. im having problems with him its like fatal attraction. i think he knows he dont have a chance with me and he figures buying roses will win me over . actually i feel for him cuz he needs lots of attention. but he is a gang member and x con and im not interested. he mistook kindness and understanding for some kinda romantic interest
yeah i know I attract real winners... How sad is that
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Help me handle this louser
by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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another lie.... he had told me that he was a widower and married his now x wife and of course is divorce now and had not yet found the right woman.... find out today his 1st wife still lives and he has tried several times to get with his x wife before he finally got custody of his sun... and tells his now live in girlfriend. that shes just a roommate and thats what hes telling others.
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by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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the latest on this louser. i have been tottally ignoring him and his g/f (I will call her Nancy) told me herself that he is to cheap to sent a dozen roses let alone two. i ask him how many Nancy's did he knew he said oh several. and i said "Well she called up the other day and said she was your girlfriend and he replyed. " naw shes my best friends girlfriend who is getting married on july 23 in vegas. Get this he invited me to go up to vegas for this wedding that soppose to take place. So I ask Nancy if she knew about this and she said no..... It was her daughter who was soppose to get married and she canceled..... He called me from his house were Nancy lives and she walked in on him and when I ask who was that he said " oh its my daughter" this guy has no clue that i know the whole scope on him. he kicked Nancy out of his bed room and shes totally distrout about the whole situation and how hes acting. but she wants to come up with a plan or has come up with a plan to expose this guy. I told her no matter what he will deny until he is actually caught with his lies.. in person..... but that it would not better her relationship with him he will just resent her more and or she will still forgive him and stay with him and he will have to be uncomfortable with the fact that I will know all the lies he has told me about him not being in a realation ship ( having a g/f) buying me the flowers; being a player; blah blah blah... kind of reminds me of that program CHEATERS
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My first post - How do I stop JW Bible Study (nicely)?
by emcee inthis is my first post, so i hope youll all bear with me.
my dad passed away in oct 2004 and a customer called me shortly afterwards.
i'll call her ellen.
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Welcome. I am sorry for the loss of your father. I too lost my father who was one of JW's in 2003
I agree with what Purza stated above: I don't think there is a way for you to do it "nicely". They will take offense, no matter how nice you are, and you will lose two "friends" and customers. But as the others said, they weren't really your friends in the first place.
Besides a true Christian is a follower of Christ. and people would turn there back on Christ and perscute him and he still was there for us and still is It is not the Religion but your relationsip with God that will save you.
So are you saying that the only reason why you are studying with JW's is because you dont want to lose them as friends or customers? think about this.
Wouldnt that be like they are judgeing you? Who are they to judge? who are they to disfellowship? to shun as if one is a ? We are all imperfect are we not? one can repent but only God knows what is in your heart.
Would God want you to serve man ( JW's) or Him? Would he want you to please man ( JW's) or Him?
Jehovah God knows what is in your heart and the heart of all of us. and if (JW's) turn your back on you or critize you just because you choose to follow you heart, and you know that deep down you are not doing anything Un Christ like, they have stubbled you.... Now what does the bible say about someone who stubbles you? If you loose your life because your brother stubbled you then they will also...
thats why I disassociated my self from them. and if im wrong for doing that... then the ones that have judge me, shuned me, or turned there back on me are just as bad as I am for that matter
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by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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yeah i guess your right .. after talking to his friend. it seemed funny or I was glad that he didnt or that we didnt go out or anything cuz then I would been hurt, used, stupid for believing his lies... i just feel sorry fo rthe girl hes with now. shes the one that gets played time and time again. Im just wondering if I should le t him know i know you saw the email. hes all talking like we have something goin on. and we dont.
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by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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Hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one. here goes..... I got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?"that was on Friday.... I called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then Tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... I talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth? I said yeah i always want the truth.... ( i cant stand liars) and he said well remember i said it wasnt me? well It was i sent them... and I ask why he said cuz i knew all the deliuma you were going threw here at work so i thought that would make you happy..... ( im still in disbelief) I ask him so why you send another( you see this guy is tight with his $ he wouldnt he dont know me that well to be doing that just seems like hes not tellin me the truth..... so i said Gee that was sweet thanks.... Im still not beliving it...... Today I find out who really sent them and they even showed me a receipt and gave me all the details and what ever... thing is the person ( co-worker ) who said it was him .... hes been trying to make the move on me and telln me how hes different from all other guys and how hes so glad he started to work were he did cuz now he meet his good friend blah blah blah... and how he thinks we would hit it off and how he would never ever lie to me and be loyal and u know all that stuff that a woman who has been burned would like to hear...... and then he lies about something as simple as this.......... try to get created for someone elses kind gusture.... LIES LIES LIES... why? now my question how should i comfront him.?.. I work with him... i want him to know how I know he lied to me and any chance he thought he had he blew it. UPDATE: RE: I emailed him and text him
you know some loser tryed to tell me he had sent me the stuff, when he hadn't and i know who sent them. and how desperate , cheap and pathetic I thought the person was to lie to me about something he didnt do..unless your the one that is lieing to me....
He responded: Are you talking about me in this e-mail? please response. Well I'm not lying to you. It was the last two day we haven't spoken too much to each other and I really have been feeling well with this cough of mine. I very tired from coughing all the time even at night. I guess it's not a good idea to surprise you with things. Some times I think you need a lift in life and things like flowers, ballons and candy help a person feel appreciate and needed in life. You are a special person, I've always told you that. Since I've been at the school no one has given you flowers only food Food is OK but people need other things in life to show them they are important. If you don't want to believe me that's your choice. I just won't do things like that again. It the small things in life that are the biggest. Especially when one does not expect them. Why would I want to lie to you. I just want to see you happy, because that all you expect from life and from a special person in your life.Anyway, have a good weekend, miss already and thinking of you. After that email a few hours later i get this phone call from a woman claiming to be his girlfriend finding my name and phone number on his cell phone. I told her I was a coworker and he claims he has no g/f.... any ways looks like this guys a BIG LOSER TWO... i told her not to let him know of the ohone all we had cuz im gonna try to come up with a plan to expose this player. Help me please come up with the next move on this loser... Lies......................................UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGg
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by Cupcake inhi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.
here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?
"that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?
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UPDATE: RE: I emailed him and text himyou know some loser tryed to tell me he had sent me the stuff, when he hadn't and i know who sent them. and how desperate , cheap and pathetic I thought the person was to lie to me about something he didnt do..unless your the one that is lieing to me....
He responded: Are you talking about me in this e-mail? please response. Well I'm not lying to you. It was the last two day we haven't spoken too much to each other and I really have been feeling well with this cough of mine. I very tired from coughing all the time even at night. I guess it's not a good idea to surprise you with things. Some times I think you need a lift in life and things like flowers, ballons and candy help a person feel appreciate and needed in life. You are a special person, I've always told you that. Since I've been at the school no one has given you flowers only food Food is OK but people need other things in life to show them they are important. If you don't want to believe me that's your choice. I just won't do things like that again. It the small things in life that are the biggest. Especially when one does not expect them. Why would I want to lie to you. I just want to see you happy, because that all you expect from life and from a special person in your life.Anyway, have a good weekend, miss already and thinking of you. After that email a few hours later i get this phone call from a woman claiming to be his girlfriend finding my name and phone number on his cell phone. I told her I was a coworker and he claims he has no g/f.... any ways looks like this guys a BIG LOSER TWO... i told her not to let him know of the ohone all we had cuz im gonna try to come up with a plan to expose this player. Help me please come up with the next move on this loser... Lies......................................UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGg