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  hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.

  here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?

  "that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?

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  I DONT GET IT????? i didnt stand any one up i didnt lie to anyone... am I missin something?
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  I had an odd day today......

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  i finished my spring semester of schooling!

  yay!

  i got a call from my sister saying that she was arrested and in jail for 3 days for domestic violence.

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  I very much agree my parents did the same thing to me for about 4 years. Happily they started to talk to be again before my fathers passing away
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  by Cupcake in

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  hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.

  here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?

  "that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?

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  melmoth suggestion was way kewl... so I text message him that statement and was curious how he would be today at work and he was keeping his distant from me and actually didnt say Goodbye at the end of the day.. I guess he knows I know he was lieing... also we sopposlly were gonna go out for the first time today or tomorrow.... so the answer to the question if I had feeling for him.... well Yes I thought he was different and he tryed to make himself be special...understanding and so forth... also try to make it sound as if he liked me suggesting that we both were looking for the same thing in life... some one to love....... honesty and trust.... but just taken it slow cuz of were we work and actually we just meet a 6 months ago. so now I know hes lied... about something so dumb as this... so what else would he lie about????Or has he lied about.??
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  lie's

  by Cupcake in

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  hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.

  here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?

  "that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?

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  no this was private and he gave the info that he gave me the roses in a conversation on the phone... so no he delibertly lied about it all.
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  by Cupcake in

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  hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.

  here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?

  "that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?

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  that was so well put. i will do just that.... And Thanks I hope he feels this tall.
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  by Cupcake in

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  hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.

  here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?

  "that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?

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  I dont get it why do people lie about the dumbest things.... so anything he ever told me since hes started work ... I dont believe... What a jerk... but how do I deal with him in this situation.
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  by Cupcake in

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  hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one.

  here goes..... i got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?

  "that was on friday.... i called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... i talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth?

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  Hi everyone just had another situation wanted to know your all opnion on how to deal with this one. here goes..... I got a dozen roses with ballons the other day at work and it had type written on the card " to someone special ?"that was on Friday.... I called my x and ask others if they sent them to me and everyone said no......including my co workers then Tuesday when i went to work, the florist brought me another dozen roses with a teddy bear and said he forgot to bring me the teddy bear on friday so he had a dozen roses a teddy bear and ballons again and the card read " thinking of you".... again didnt know who sent it... I talk to a co worker who is trying to make the moves on me and he said " do you want me to tell you the truth? I said yeah i always want the truth.... ( i cant stand liars) and he said well remember i said it wasnt me? well It was i sent them... and I ask why he said cuz i knew all the deliuma you were going threw here at work so i thought that would make you happy..... ( im still in disbelief) I ask him so why you send another( you see this guy is tight with his $ he wouldnt he dont know me that well to be doing that just seems like hes not tellin me the truth..... so i said Gee that was sweet thanks.... Im still not beliving it...... Today I find out who really sent them and they even showed me a receipt and gave me all the details and what ever... thing is the person ( co-worker ) who said it was him .... hes been trying to make the move on me and telln me how hes different from all other guys and how hes so glad he started to work were he did cuz now he meet his good friend blah blah blah... and how he thinks we would hit it off and how he would never ever lie to me and be loyal and u know all that stuff that a woman who has been burned would like to hear...... and then he lies about something as simple as this.......... try to get created for someone elses kind gusture.... LIES LIES LIES... why? now my question how should i comfront him.?.. I work with him... i want him to know how I know he lied to me and any chance he thought he had he blew it.
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  hi all hows it going .

  im having problems with my boss.... i dread going to work theres always some drama ging on there hes in my business all the time personal that is... he makes comments to others about how im private stock and so on and so forth yet denies hes even doing anything wrong.

  he gets mad if i talk to others (males) at the work place and also gets upset when i get phone calls (males) ive been with the company for about 6 years i am a hard worker all see this around me yet he treats me like crap what should i do?

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  yes I do miss him very very much.. although he wanted so much to retyuren to the organization i told himthat i have learned that its not religion but relationship with God that will save you.. he seemed to respect me for that.. AI told him that one needs to go to the meetings or shurch because one wants to serve God not MAN....other wise they are pleasing man not God...I still respect my father as one of Jehovahs witness but I also feel that when the bible says that when the new order comes that you will be surprise that the people you thought would be there are not and the ones that you thought wouldnt bee there are... and that makes me think that its not the religion... God knows whats in our hearts and he knows what we truly desire and well i just think that its not all JW's that are gonna be saved.... ps things are getting better at work.... THANKS AGAIN
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  by Cupcake in

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  hi all hows it going .

  im having problems with my boss.... i dread going to work theres always some drama ging on there hes in my business all the time personal that is... he makes comments to others about how im private stock and so on and so forth yet denies hes even doing anything wrong.

  he gets mad if i talk to others (males) at the work place and also gets upset when i get phone calls (males) ive been with the company for about 6 years i am a hard worker all see this around me yet he treats me like crap what should i do?

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  I just wanna thank everyone for all there suggestion help and support . Before I use to have my Dad to talk to about all my problems and dealing with certain situations. He was one of Jehovah's Witnesses......... So I thought if I came on here I would somehow get the advice that my Father would give me( he passed away 2 years ago). So I just wanted to thank every one who has taken the time to answer my post. It means alot to me and it has made me strong to know that I have people to back me up and give me that strenght to stand up to this creep. From the bottom of my Heart and with all my Love... Thank you ALL XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
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  boss

  by Cupcake in

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  hi all hows it going .

  im having problems with my boss.... i dread going to work theres always some drama ging on there hes in my business all the time personal that is... he makes comments to others about how im private stock and so on and so forth yet denies hes even doing anything wrong.

  he gets mad if i talk to others (males) at the work place and also gets upset when i get phone calls (males) ive been with the company for about 6 years i am a hard worker all see this around me yet he treats me like crap what should i do?

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  today i let him know what the score was if he didnt cut out his crap....he said he didnt want to loose me as an employee but denies saying or doing anything that would want me to believe that im being harrased in any paticular matter. he said he admits that he has a sour puss attitude at times but he thinks people read to much in the way he is.....( just a bunh of jib) I told him that im hear to work and nothing else and that my personal business is my business and unless i bring it to work it should not be of any concern to him. He said that i was over friendly with every one there. meaning i talk to mush to them and they to me. I told him im doing a job.... and im not a snob.... and that part of the business and unless i was doing things to jepordize the workplace ie; having affairs with clients, going out, what ever.... that he should not act as if or act like a jeouls person because for one he has no right and for another it leads people to believe that he has a thing for me.