EternalPettingZoo
the society does not want anyone talking about anything negative. At an elders school we were told not to respond to any accusations made against us in the press. The idea is if no one is talking it will be forgotten.
also some in the congregations are fearful of saying anything in case they are labeled as doubters and therefore spiritually weak.
Don't worry I have a still in elderly relative and I have said to them why don't you ask the elders about the Royal Commission. Their reply "your got to be kidding"!
"I found it amusing that my sis would come to me to inquire about the happenings of her religion."
maybe she does not want to visit apostate sites. and feels safe talking to you.. I think that is a positive.