P.S. Stilla did you ask about this because you watch Star Trek & I watch Will & Grace? he he he
Yes - one of the reasons
Well if it helps you in your studies/investigations my Lesbian boss is a mad fan of Star Trek and my Gay colleague is a mad fan of Will & Grace.... interesting isn't it...! LOL
Jourles
Its been years since I read the book but as I remember the concept of the 'cave' is this.... Men have this place called the cave. What this means is that when they just want time out they go quiet and retreat as it were. (ie go into their cave...) Now along comes the woman and sees the man being quiet or whatever and from her way of thinking goes 'Oh no! somethings wrong!!!' so she tries to coax him out of the cave. Like by saying is everything okay? or whats wrong? that sort of stuff. This makes the man agitated and he retreats further into the cave. The lesson for women from it is that if a man is in his cave leave him alone. If you leave him alone he will come out of the cave a lot quicker instead of retreating further into it.