Gary,
Your thread is interesting that so many people responded with excellent advice for you. They care about you and your young family and the burden you are under. The statement you made about;
The PO said, there are some publishers wondering why your children are not trained.
caught my attention. Gary, you are not being treated with RESPECT the PO has no right to say this about your family. Please learn from others who have been through painful experiences to leave this religious cult.
~desbah~