Posts by LongHairGal

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7 Letters Requested--Cost Of Living Survey!

by Atlantis in

jw
friends

cost of living survey worksheet--(assembly hall servants & construction servants).

cost of living survey worksheet--missionaries.

cost of living survey worksheet--special pioneers.

LongHairGal

ATLANTIS:

Yeah, but whose pockets??

I am sure all the JWs still active are being hit up for money left and right. The demographics of the religion have also changed.

The older responsible JWs who are financially secure are passing away. What’s left are people who may not be gainfully employed because of listening to stupid BS about not getting careers. Then you have the needy with serious ‘issues’ brought into the religion the last two decades - no doubt to fill the empty seats! For sure these people are added to the list of other JWs looking for handouts!

To me this sounds like a powder-keg situation and I’m Glad I did a ‘Fade’ years ago because I wouldn’t want to be anywhere near this!

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I pioneered brothers parked their BMW and got aride in my 20 year old car?? No support.

by Witness 007 in

so i pioneered for 10 years in the 1990's it was 90 hours a month with alot of country driving.

i was shocked when brothers and sisters with full time jobs would park their brand new cars and go witnessing in my 20 year old orange datsun.

i was barely living on $250 a week as a yeah...window cleaner.

LongHairGal

EXJWLEMMING:

I’m sorry you learned the hard way about ‘lending’ JWs expensive tools among other things.

Too many Witnesses are Users plain and simple who will take what they can get (Freebies) from people who can’t say NO. This is the naked truth about it all.👎

I never resented anybody who was well-off and never expected anything from anybody..I did not ‘covet’ anybody’s anything.. I had a full-time job and supported myself. However, I was criticized for having this job - and by older people collecting their pensions, to boot!!.. Because of this hateful attitude towards me, I wouldn’t give so much as a dime to pioneers who didn’t work. I also Refused to do favors for all the Users.

I was charitable towards certain single women who were friendly towards me. These women were poorly paid and sadly did so much for the religion.

It’s interesting to note these single women are needy today!!!..Women who don’t get married or get a career end up poor in their senior years!.. This is why I have no regrets about my full-time job because I am Retired now.. The religion and the hypocrites within would certainly not be supporting me or anybody else.

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Am I Expected to Become One of Jehovah’s Witnesses if I Study the Bible With Them?

by Ron.W. in

(ps.

LongHairGal

RON W:

Of course you would be expected to become a JW if you have a ‘bible’ study with them…This is the only reason they would ever bother with anybody.

They will be very friendly at first and kill you with kindness. However, if you make No real progress, ask too many intelligent or intellectual/type questions OR bring up any bad publicity you have heard, they will be on their guard. They hate thinking people.

Once you say you are not really interested..you will be dropped like a bad habit.

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Hi again

by Lee Marsh in

jw
friends

it is nice to see some familiar faces here.

for those who don't know who i am my last id was lady lee.

thought i would drop by and say hello; see how people are doing.

LongHairGal

Hello Lee,

Nice to see you here once again.

Wishing you the best of luck with your hard fight!

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I pioneered brothers parked their BMW and got aride in my 20 year old car?? No support.

by Witness 007 in

so i pioneered for 10 years in the 1990's it was 90 hours a month with alot of country driving.

i was shocked when brothers and sisters with full time jobs would park their brand new cars and go witnessing in my 20 year old orange datsun.

i was barely living on $250 a week as a yeah...window cleaner.

LongHairGal

WITNESS 007:

Anybody who rode in your car should have given you gas money! That’s what I would have done. I also took certain friends out to lunch.

I might have driven a few times in the earlier years out in service..I got criticized for turning corners too fast by one older sister. I said I’m sorry but I could take her back to the hall if she wanted.😈. This was one with a cushy life and worldly husband. She was the one who made the remark that I ‘shouldn’t get a 2 door car’. To which I replied that if the religion was making my car payments I would get any car they liked.

I realized Witnesses were ingrates and it was a liability to have people in my car. So, I never did this again. Besides, these idiots criticized me for my full-time job.👎

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5 years ago they were 25, now they hit the BIG 30-----and still single---jw girls.

by pistolpete in

experience from reddit.

i’m in my mid 20’s but i’m noticing alot of sisters that are 35, 40 and just kind of lost.

single, still live at home or heavily dependent on parents because they have measly jobs.

LongHairGal

PISTOLPETE:

Very funny pictures, but sooo accurate!

RULES & REGULATIONS:

Your old thread from eight years ago still is very accurate - regardless of whether anybody thinks it is a ‘hater’ thread.

The only difference today is that there are somewhat fewer JWs in the religion. Many have left and I would wager most of them are male. That means there are even fewer left in the pool of ‘available’ men. This is assuming they are even desirable to a woman with common sense.

I realize Witness world is a small fishbowl where a guy who may not be attractive and has nothing going for him will be sought after by desperate women.. But as long as nobody confuses this with Real world standards outside the religion where guys like him would be laughed at!

As for that pretty 37 year old ‘spinster’ who was a convert and didn’t ‘appreciate’ JW dating standards and rejected ‘potential suitors’ (how dare she? 🙄)..she should find a guy outside. The hell with everybody in the idiot religion! ..She is not ‘condemned’ to be single if she wakes up!

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5 years ago they were 25, now they hit the BIG 30-----and still single---jw girls.

by pistolpete in

experience from reddit.

i’m in my mid 20’s but i’m noticing alot of sisters that are 35, 40 and just kind of lost.

single, still live at home or heavily dependent on parents because they have measly jobs.

LongHairGal

PISTOLPETE & DATA DOG:

Regarding ‘spirituality as currency’ mindset: I did hear plenty of talk about sisters looking for a ‘spiritual’ man.🙄..Such a silly word.

However, in my ‘unspiritual’ mind and heart I never truly ‘got’ it. Maybe it’s because I was not a born-in?? My values were shaped before I joined the JW religion. While I may have wanted a decent guy, I certainly wasn’t looking for an elder (or anybody there with a title).. I’m sorry if anybody was deluded enough to think they were hot shit because they were an elder.. I certainly didn’t think so.

Sometime ago, I read a post where somebody said something along the lines of: ‘being an elder was about as important (or exciting) as being the president of the local book club’.🤣 ..I certainly agreed with this. Sorry if this offends anybody.

Getting back to the point of the thread: there are too few men in the JW religion and far too many women there looking for any man who has a pulse. They should do themselves a favor and look elsewhere.

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5 years ago they were 25, now they hit the BIG 30-----and still single---jw girls.

by pistolpete in

experience from reddit.

i’m in my mid 20’s but i’m noticing alot of sisters that are 35, 40 and just kind of lost.

single, still live at home or heavily dependent on parents because they have measly jobs.

LongHairGal

RULES & REGULATIONS:

Of course it’s better to be single than married to the wrong person.

But, as far as your JW cousins in their 60s and never married.. I wouldn’t be sitting there if I were them!.. They are objects of ‘pity’ and are sitting ducks to be targeted by Users. This is the only use for single women there. I wouldn’t give anybody the satisfaction. I got criticized for my job so these hypocrites wouldn’t get the right time from me.

I walked away from the JW religion in my forties because of the 1995 teaching on Generation. I knew it was Over.. I didn’t leave because there were ‘No men’. Although looking back in retrospect I probably should have.

In time, I Retired. I will say this: I’m glad I’m not in the religion now after what has happened over the last two decades!!.. I’d never stand for being targeted to do favors and/or being asked for money in general - and especially for people who didn’t work. 👎

In short, I’m Glad I’m out.

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5 years ago they were 25, now they hit the BIG 30-----and still single---jw girls.

by pistolpete in

experience from reddit.

i’m in my mid 20’s but i’m noticing alot of sisters that are 35, 40 and just kind of lost.

single, still live at home or heavily dependent on parents because they have measly jobs.

LongHairGal

GREAT TEACHER:

That’s a sick story!

I agree with that ‘traditional method’ you mention. These Witness women have to look outside for a man!

Otherwise the young ones will be pursued by older disgusting guys. (I was once a young girl and would have never wanted an old guy to touch me 🤮.). And the older sisters there (no matter how beautiful or accomplished) would be passed over by these unattractive guys who must have a magic mirror it seems!

All these extra ladies (unclaimed treasures) would only be viewed as somebodies to ask favors from (or hit up for money). [They are degrading themselves just being there subjected to the attitudes and bullshit]..Some User/Loser types would try to befriend them to try to convince them into a co-dependent relationship.😮 No thanks! I’m not interested.

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5 years ago they were 25, now they hit the BIG 30-----and still single---jw girls.

by pistolpete in

experience from reddit.

i’m in my mid 20’s but i’m noticing alot of sisters that are 35, 40 and just kind of lost.

single, still live at home or heavily dependent on parents because they have measly jobs.

LongHairGal

PISTOLPETE:

Yes, I saw the Reddit thread. All those good-looking JW single women should look outside the religion if they want to get married or are worrying about their ‘biological clock’!

They shouldn’t be lowering themselves chasing the few Witness guys who aren’t worth it or are playing ‘games’.. Find a man more worthy outside and then come back with the new husband. After a while, all the busybodies will forget. Unfortunately, too many men are dysfunctional (in and out of the religion). But, at least a guy from outside isn’t mentally emasculated from a repressive religion!

As for me, when I came into the JW religion as a twenty-something, I didn’t see any brothers that were attractive to me. All the good men were taken..Some young guy had shown an interest but he was a born-in, younger than me. He was cute-ish but he wasn’t for me.

I wasn’t really keen on getting married anyway and didn’t want kids (otherwise I would have looked outside)..I saw desperate sisters settle for guys in the ‘Truth’ that either weren’t so ‘hot’ or damaged mentally..I couldn’t do that..As time went on I heard of pathetic older sisters chasing the few ‘available’ men in the circuit. To me, that’s degrading.

It’s true that I was one of those ‘picky’ sisters and thought very highly of myself..I had more than one person say this to me..But, that was my business and not anybody else’s.