Posts by LongHairGal

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH:

I am sorry that happened to you with that sister, but this is typical in the Witness religion. You went over and above it seems. But, people will take what they can get. There are too many users looking to get something for nothing and capitalize on getting people to feel sorry for them!

The problem is that today this type of thing would be even more prevalent there with the number of ‘needy’ in the religion and JWs panicked about hitting retirement age with no preparation. I always said there are probably more needy people in the JW religion than anywhere else because of the teachings of the religion knocking people getting decent jobs and careers.. Knowing what I know, I’d have to be nuts to go anywhere near the place.

Even though I’m out 21 years, I am glad I’m not there now. I couldn’t stand all the appeals for money and guilt trips (not that it would work on me anyway).

The way they hated me years ago because I had a full time job, didn’t pioneer or do favors for all the Users - they’d hate me now because I wouldn’t give handouts. It’s ironic. In fact, it would not surprise me if they become very hostile as time goes on to those who don’t want to give charity to those there who never wanted to work!

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH:

Sorry, I wasn’t really offended by you. Just the idea in general. And far too many JWs would have this idea!

Believe me, if I were active in the JW religion now and attending I would certainly be approached at some point on the topic of $. I would end up having unpleasant words with some Witness when I told them No. It might even get heated if they laid on the usual B.S. I’m not interested in anybody’s ‘sacrifice’ or a ‘brotherhood’. It was no brotherhood back when I was criticized for working..Not only that, JWs have selective memory loss about people being criticized for working - especially when they want something.

Even though the Bible says if you don’t work you don’t eat, the Witnesses conveniently ignore scriptures they don’t like.

As we know, the religion has no infrastructure in place to help anybody and I don’t believe for one minute they care what happens to anybody - whether it’s bethelites who got sent home or people in congregations who were in the full-time ministry and never bothered their pretty heads about important things like work and retirement savings.

Yes, these needy JWs who didn’t plan are as you say ‘at the mercy of others’ and their handouts.. I am just glad that I am not anywhere near them because I would not be left alone.

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH:

Look, the religion make a huge mistake when it told people for decades not to get decent jobs or careers.

Now there are too many JWs who are poor because they never prepared for retirement. The religion has no social programs whatsoever so naturally they are going to tell people to seek out relatives and social services.

When you say congregations ‘should take care of their own’ you must mean somebody going around with an envelope cornering people to give money. Well, I am somebody who was criticized for having a full-time job. I was shunned and not invited. If I had listened to the Witnesses I wouldn’t be Retired today. What makes you or anybody else think anybody has a right to pester ME for money for people there who never worked - after I got knocked for working?? And this would be constant and never ending.

Look! the ‘system’ there (if you want to call it that) - doesn’t work.

I’m glad I’m Out of the JW religion as I would never tolerate this garbage and the hypocrisy in this dysfunctional religion.

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An aspect of dealing with my elderly, PIMI, Father

by joe134cd in

for a bit of back ground.

i’m a full blown pomo apostate.

nothing would please me more to see wt burn to the ground.

LongHairGal

TENDRILLAR2022:

Welcome to the forum.

I agree with your post about telling the original poster that he is doing the right thing about caring for his dad.

I totally agree with you that the JW religion has no infrastructure in place for that or anything else for that matter! No social programs whatsoever…I will be the first to criticize about how they knocked college and careers and there are probably millions of JWs around who listened to bad advice and never planned for retirement. These needy Witnesses will need to seek out help from the churches of Christendom who have soup kitchens, pantries, etc.

But, to be real, while it would be nice for the ‘friends’ to stop by and say hello from time to time, it’s NOT anybody else’s responsibility to care for or to see to the needs of anybody’s elderly parents except the closest relatives. I’m not saying you are exactly suggesting that but I’m saying it for anybody else who may actually be thinking this because of fantasies and urban legends. And, if it’s a case of somebody senile who has no children or relatives then a phone call to the authorities is warranted. The state would have to step in.

Of course, this does not take into account children who were abused or kicked out of their home when they were young. I wouldn’t be taking care of any parent like that either.

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

BALAAMSASS2:

Wow, what a betrayal by your former wife! Too bad she was stupid enough to do that plus leave you. Now, look at the circumstances she’s in!..Maybe somebody else might have thrown HER out first for her betrayal. And over what? Because you were doing the sensible thing and saving money for the future? The scriptures talk about ‘Money being a protection’. Well this implies savings of some sort.

As for those elders who took your worthless ‘privileges’ away, they deserved to have ended up in poverty. And so does anybody else there who pushed poverty (no, actually rammed it down the throats of sensible people there) and tried to punish those who they could not persuade. As far as I’m concerned, there are degrees of moral responsibility in the religion. Some felt it was only a suggestion that somebody ‘not plan for retirement but should pioneer’ and they believed in ‘live and let live’.

Any other self-righteous JWs there who did not believe in ‘live and let live’ who actively made trouble for JWs who DID plan (like myself) deserve to end up like the elders and your ex-wife described above.. They deserve NO pity..from anybody.

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

FEDUPJW:

Regarding the elder who decided against work so he can be in the ministry (called ‘putting Jehovah first’) there are far TOO many people in the religion like this. The Witness religion is probably filled with more needy people per square inch than any other religion.

There are: pioneers ‘who didn’t count the cost’; bethelites who got kicked out; regular publishers with low paid jobs close-by so they won’t miss meetings; and finally the disturbed people with serious issues brought into the religion in recent decades to fill the empty seats in the hall.

You have a dwindling elderly population that are among the only responsible people there with maybe some younger people here and there with a decent job. And you imagine these people are going to be regularly hit up for money to give to the deadbeats above??

When you say that elder whines about tight finances and somebody gives him an envelope stuffed with money, let me assure you it would never be me that put anything in there!! If I had done what he did and never worked, do you imagine that anybody would be taking up a collection for ME? 🤣 Nope. I’m glad I’m long Out of the JW religion with the chaos and dysfunction and people with their hands out. 👎

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

BIAHI:

Congratulations on your well-deserved retirement after all those years in the workforce! I certainly understand.

I didn’t realize you were out of the JW religion for so many years! Forty to my twenty-one. I also don’t regret a single minute being out and wished I’d done it a decade earlier. I wasn’t raised a JW and worked while I was there (for which they hated me). But, that’s okay.

I am sure you would have a lot of interesting things to say to the JWs if they came to your door but they’d probably try to hit you up for money if you tell them you were once a JW and now retired.

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No pension no preparation for retirement

by Mikejw in

jw
friends

a lot of my ex fellow servants must be now in their seventies, what can you do?.

no children no money no home.

it is so sad.. so many decided not to have children as the end was right around the corner and that was decades ago.

LongHairGal

SIMON:

Well, I wasn’t aware of the part about keeping ‘most of your income’ if you live in the USA. I’m spending money like water.

So, apparently there are benefits and drawbacks to whichever system somebody lives under.

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3 years in the making

by Judgerussellford in

jw
friends

thursday while i was at work, a new elder stopped by the house (almost 3 years after fading) to encourage us to go back to meetings.

said everyone misses us.

if you did, why not stop by and say hi every now and then?

LongHairGal

Okay. (Peace).

Then you should go for it!

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An aspect of dealing with my elderly, PIMI, Father

by joe134cd in

for a bit of back ground.

i’m a full blown pomo apostate.

nothing would please me more to see wt burn to the ground.

LongHairGal

JOE134CD:

I tend to agree with Carla that they know or suspect that you don’t agree with the religion anymore. You’ve been out for over ten years.

I don’t think you should write a DA letter either. Just keep your thoughts to yourself and don’t get cornered into any discussions with people your dad has invited over!

But, just because the local congregation hasn’t bothered you up until now, doesn’t mean somebody can’t come knocking on your door at some point…to encourage you. 🤮