SOLOMON & BETH SARIM:
I have heard of every extreme of people who get married in the JW religion: from some young guy marrying an older woman to the increasingly more prevalent older JW guy looking for a younger woman or even a teenage girl.
Yes, we all know the dating pool is shallow in the religion. There are probably twice as many women than men there which makes the most undesired man look better in the eyes of some desperate women there.. But, to me, this is like saying if there were a housing shortage a dirthole of an apartment would be desirable just because someone needs a roof.
As for the older guys (mostly sheltered born-ins) looking for an 18 year old girl: they don’t want an older woman with baggage. And never mind any woman who was not raised in the religion. She’d scare the hell out of them.
They also figure the young girl has no sexual experience which is good because they don’t have any either! So, he will get an “A” in that department since she has nothing to compare him to.
It’s all pretty screwed up there and I always felt any woman over 30 with a brain and an ounce of self-esteem has to look outside for a man.