ENOUGH IS ENOUGH:
You are so right about being invited for something like that and things similar! But it was certainly not to reach out or be friendly!
My experience in the JW religion was that I was unpopular because I worked and didn’t pioneer. Yet, I was still invited to people’s MLM parties (and a baby shower here & there). Which is to say, any venture where I was wanted to spend money.
Naturally, I wasn’t invited to those secret pioneer gatherings/dinners. But, if it was something where I was a potential cu$tomer to spend bucks - I got an invitation. After a while I recall declining because I just didn’t need their products.
After this it was radio silence with all these phonies, which was fine with me.