LongHairGal

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  My decision.

  by MissDaSilva in

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  i’ve decided to disassociate from the jw organisation.

  i cannot be part of a community that blatantly rejects the sacrifice of jesus in that demonic memorial ritual.

  amazing what information you find when you start researching.. i’m writing my letter and posting it to the kingdom hall this morning.

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  LongHairGal

  MISS DA SILVA:

  If you want to DA and have no friends in the JW religion or family members that mean anything to you, great!

  Everybody’s circumstances are different. Most choose to ‘Fade’ because they want to maintain a relationship with people still in. But, things are different in the religion now and they will find themselves shunned anyway.

  Years ago I decided to ‘Fade’ because I did not want any drama.. It was not about maintaining the few ‘friends’ I had. Thankfully, I had no family in the JWs and I worked.. In time, the few ‘friendships’ in the religion cooled off and have pretty much gone away.

  This is no real loss because I have moved on myself and am realistic that in life you don’t necessarily remain friends with everybody you meet.. People move away, etc.. Maybe my Catholic/non-Witness upbringing along with my having worked has made me more down-to-earth in my outlook.
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  My grandmother called my mother

  by Anony Mous in

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  so, i’m just posting this as a warning to lurking jws.

  if you’re still on the fence, here is a story.. my grandmother, now in her 80s hasn’t talked to anyone in the family for over 20 years ever since my mother was the last one of her children that left ‘the truth’, she had sent my mother a card to never talk to her again.

  so here we are 21 years later, she gets a call out of the blue that she needed help, she hadn’t been able to get into her kitchen.

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  ANONY MOUS:

  This is very sad and I am in agreement with DIOGENESISTER.

  When I hear stories like this of elderly JWs putting trust in strangers in the religion instead of their OWN family, I get positively ill. ..I am so grateful I was not raised a Witness and have no family there.

  At least I know by comparison my blood family are the only people who really cared about me.. It was a lesson I learned and will never forget.

  Will your post help any lurking JWs to see what the REAL story is there and to not be fooled by urban legends?? I sincerely hope so!
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  Why are the 2 newly appointed Governing Body Members from Bethel, when there are anointed ones all over the world? they could have used.

  by RULES & REGULATIONS in

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  library.

  books & brochures.

  enjoy life forever!—an interactive bible course.

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  FEDUPJW:

  You might have a point there!

  This is corporate headquarters and they need everybody to ‘fit in’. Somebody from across the world is an ‘unknown’ to them and they might not want to take a chance!

  Is everybody forgetting that we don’t know the reasons AM3 was removed? There is speculation he may have not been in agreement with the changes that were just implemented in the annual meeting.. Situations like this would possibly be more likely to occur in the future with somebody from elsewhere.
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  55 Year Cycle shows up in March 2024 Watchtower

  by was a new boy in

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  did they hope that everybody who read the1969 awake as a kid is too senile to remember?.

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  DING:

  You are so correct in your reply to Rattigan. The Bible writers have also been long dead but what they wrote has touched countless people.

  This is probably why the JW religion trashed old books, etc. because they don’t want anybody beating any of those dead horses! Especially when they caused so much damage.

  Any JWs who acted on this teaching back in 1969 are senior citizens suffering this very day! ..It certainly doesn’t mean anything now that they got invited to special dinners and gatherings back then!!! ..What is particularly hurtful now is that the hourly time reporting fhey all knocked themselves out for has been discarded!!! I would feel positively ILL…

  I'm grateful I wasn’t in the religion yet and wasn’t exposed to this harmful advice. And it is well worth it now that I got criticized because I held onto the job they all hated me for!
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  Broadcasts, Are they just a distraction?

  by KerryKing in

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  the recent broad casts about not handing in time sheets, and then about beards, especially the beards, it seems so trivial, are those talks only released in order to distract the followers from the recent court case they lost on spain, from the csa cases, the kh sales and so on?.

  i reckon they're taking their lead from the media, distract and divide tactics..

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  BETH SARIM:

  Yeah. No apologies will be forthcoming to anyone. Don’t hold your breath waiting.

  Does anybody care what you went through and if you’re suffering now as a result???

  Faithful and gullible JWs screwed up their lives when they were young. No college or careers for them!! They were told ‘Armageddon was coming and they won’t need to worry about retirement’. Meanwhile all the older people in the congregation were collecting their pensions. I witnessed all this.

  Those young pioneers wouldn’t be caught dead in a full time job like I had… When I heard about the changed teaching at the recent annual meeting that No more time needs to be reported - I was Glad that I never listened to any of the foolish talk all those years ago.
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  JWs and Coping with Reality

  by Vanderhoven7 in

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  become a jw only if you can't cope with the real world.

  i believe i picked this up here but can't find the thread.

  i think it worth a repost.. “top ten reasons jehovah's witnesses can't cope with the real world.

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  VANDERHOVEN & WATCHER:

  One of the things that comes to mind was when I was in the JWs and how it seemed they played a game of fantasy. It was really a trick on the mind. They play acted as though they were a little village in ancient Israel.

  It makes me wonder if this messed with some people’s heads and maybe could play a part in why many JWs don’t want to deal with reality(?)

  The fact is that we all live in the modern world. Most of us, or at least I did, had to make a living in this world. The real one, I might add. Anybody who wanted to live out a fantasy that the JW religion was the ‘world’ they wanted to live in - that was their problem. Hope they can pay their bills.. Sometimes reality isn’t always pleasant but I don’t want anybody’s world of make-believe!
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  Merry Christmas

  by jhine in

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  so for those amongst us who celebrate the season .

  merry christmas everyone.

  .. jan from tam .

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  JHINE:

  When I left the JW religion years ago, I resumed celebrating the Holidays!

  Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to all!
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  JWLITE

  by Teddnzo in

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  even elders can be part of the new jw lite brigade these days.

  they don’t need to go on door to door anymore and there is no requirement for anything really.. taking meeting parts is all dead easy you could turn up on the day with zero preparation because it’s all in the meeting workbook.. quarterly elders meetings are just old men having a good old natter just like old men do down the pub.. congregations could be likened to pubs or bars these days just without the drinks, those come at other times.. no need for territory maps, these almost went away with covid letter writing now they are extremely slow getting finished as those who still go door to door only do ten mins.. you could even voice your questions these days about things the gb say and then just say “we can’t be dogmatic we just don’t know”.

  i predict they will say this about 1914 soon..

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  LongHairGal

  I know these changes making the JW religion into ‘JWLITE’ must be a disappointment to some hardliners there.. There must be a lot of conflicting and bad emotions for some - maybe because they sacrificed so much for ‘commands of men ‘.

  But, as many have speculated, the religion probably wants to hold onto whatever people it has left. Only time will tell if these tactics work.
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  Holy barbasol Batman! Beards are now allowed!

  by nowwhat? in

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  latest gb update.

  only took them 20 years to see beards are acceptable in society.

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  VIDIOT:

  Clothing drives would imply real charity! Wouldn’t that be amazing.
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  Holy barbasol Batman! Beards are now allowed!

  by nowwhat? in

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  latest gb update.

  only took them 20 years to see beards are acceptable in society.

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  LongHairGal

  Yes, first the shocking news at their annual meeting of No more time reporting. Now, beards are allowed. Of course, this is absurd because beards should never have Not been allowed. This is what happens when ‘commands of men’ are taught.

  Will this news stop people from leaving???

  Makes everybody wonder what more radical changes in the JW religion are coming soon down the road.